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Venting about being unsuccessful with women

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It's official. I can only recall the female gender as a whole hating on me in some form or another throughout the entirety of my life. Heck, even when I looked objectively my best, girls still had this type of disgust towards me but I looked good so they looked past it to some degree most of the time.

Yeah, I can get the occasional ONS with a mid looking chick. But I don't think there's anything worse than having a ONS and the girl is completely emotionally closed off and just laying there. These very same women don't want to be seen in public with me, but they sure as hell want to be screw behind closed doors. It's very painful that women view me as someone beneath them so much so that they don't want to be seen in public with me because i'll 'lower her status.'

All I want is a relationship where I recieve affection from a woman and can help explore her body while fulfilling her needs in the process. I don't think it's in the cards for me as I've been single for around 15 or so years. I feel like women have collectively written me off as some defected dude. It got so bad years ago that I stopped even looking at women or communicating with them while carrying myself in a very relaxed and layed back kind of way when I was around them and they noticed this and here I am today. The false hope the girls gave me brought me back into the dating scene because at age 22, (im gen z btw), I fully gave up on women and I kind of regret taking myself out of that mentality, because I was at such a state of peace it's hard to put into words. I find myself yearning for it and just calling it quits. If I do find myself leaning into it, I will be so relaxed and at peace with my situation that no woman in the world could convince me that she is being genuine with me. Once that day comes, I will let go and never deal with another woman ever again.

I'm starting to get old, and this isn't working. All of the surgeries, lifting, softmaxing, confidence maxing hasn't resulted in anything serious taking place for me with women. Its like they enjoy leading men on like me collectively. But at the end of the day, my track record speaks for itself and soon i'll know once and for all where I stand. I didn't want this, but women do. All I ever wanted was a loving relationship where I give my full loyalty to one special woman. But that aint reality, so it seems.
 
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It's official. I can only recall the female gender as a whole hating on me in some form or another throughout the entirety of my life. Heck, even when I looked objectively my best, girls still had this type of disgust towards me but I looked good so they looked past it to some degree most of the time.

Yeah, I can get the occasional ONS with a mid looking chick. But I don't think there's anything worse than having a ONS and the girl is completely emotionally closed off and just laying there. These very same women don't want to be seen in public with me, but they sure as hell want to be screw behind closed doors. It's very painful that women view me as someone beneath them so much so that they don't want to be seen in public with me because i'll 'lower her status.'

All I want is a relationship where I recieve affection from a woman and can help explore her body while fulfilling her needs in the process. I don't think it's in the cards for me as I've been single for around 15 or so years. I feel like women have collectively written me off as some defected dude. It got so bad years ago that I stopped even looking at women or communicating with them while carrying myself in a very relaxed and layed back kind of way when I was around them and they noticed this and here I am today. The false hope the girls gave me brought me back into the dating scene because at age 22, (im gen z btw), I fully gave up on women and I kind of regret taking myself out of that mentality, because I was at such a state of peace it's hard to put into words. I find myself yearning for it and just calling it quits. If I do find myself leaning into it, I will be so relaxed and at peace with my situation that no woman in the world could convince me that she is being genuine with me. Once that day comes, I will let go and never deal with another woman ever again.

I'm starting to get old, and this isn't working. All of the surgeries, lifting, softmaxing, confidence maxing hasn't resulted in anything serious taking place for me with women. Its like they enjoy leading men on like me collectively. But at the end of the day, my track record speaks for itself and soon i'll know once and for all where I stand. I didn't want this, but women do. All I ever wanted was a loving relationship where I give my full loyalty to one special woman. But that aint reality, so it seems.

C'est la vie.
switch to men
 
It's official. I can only recall the female gender as a whole hating on me in some form or another throughout the entirety of my life. Heck, even when I looked objectively my best, girls still had this type of disgust towards me but I looked good so they looked past it to some degree most of the time.

Yeah, I can get the occasional ONS with a mid looking chick. But I don't think there's anything worse than having a ONS and the girl is completely emotionally closed off and just laying there. These very same women don't want to be seen in public with me, but they sure as hell want to be screw behind closed doors. It's very painful that women view me as someone beneath them so much so that they don't want to be seen in public with me because i'll 'lower her status.'

All I want is a relationship where I recieve affection from a woman and can help explore her body while fulfilling her needs in the process. I don't think it's in the cards for me as I've been single for around 15 or so years. I feel like women have collectively written me off as some defected dude. It got so bad years ago that I stopped even looking at women or communicating with them while carrying myself in a very relaxed and layed back kind of way when I was around them and they noticed this and here I am today. The false hope the girls gave me brought me back into the dating scene because at age 22, (im gen z btw), I fully gave up on women and I kind of regret taking myself out of that mentality, because I was at such a state of peace it's hard to put into words. I find myself yearning for it and just calling it quits. If I do find myself leaning into it, I will be so relaxed and at peace with my situation that no woman in the world could convince me that she is being genuine with me. Once that day comes, I will let go and never deal with another woman ever again.

I'm starting to get old, and this isn't working. All of the surgeries, lifting, softmaxing, confidence maxing hasn't resulted in anything serious taking place for me with women. Its like they enjoy leading men on like me collectively. But at the end of the day, my track record speaks for itself and soon i'll know once and for all where I stand. I didn't want this, but women do. All I ever wanted was a loving relationship where I give my full loyalty to one special woman. But that aint reality, so it seems.

C'est la vie.
has any woman ever like told u why they seem so averted by u, cos if u look good then its nth to do with looks but more about ur personality n overall (i hate this word but cant think of another) 'vibe'
Also not trying to be rude but ppl w autism tend to suffer w social stuff like this, do u think its that ?
 
switch to men
Requirements

- Big fucking dick like you need a nice juicy cock that’s most important

- Muscular but some like twinks like them so it depends

- Financially free somewhat
 
has any woman ever like told u why they seem so averted by u, cos if u look good then its nth to do with looks but more about ur personality n overall (i hate this word but cant think of another) 'vibe'
Also not trying to be rude but ppl w autism tend to suffer w social stuff like this, do u think its that ?
Im a bit above average looking and tall. Yes, my personality puts off a lot of women. Not wanting to sleep around, do drugs, give her a black eye and be a jerk has held me back considerably with the subset of women who do make themselves available to me.

I probably am autistic. Hence my lower status in society and women not wanting to be seen with me.
 
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Im a bit above average looking and tall. Yes, my personality puts off a lot of women. Not want to sleep around, give her a black eye and be a jerk has held me back considerably with the subset of women who do make themselves available to me.

I probably am autistic. Hence my lower status in society and women not wanting to be seen with me.
probably, people get put off by autistic ppl
if its any help I've been told the most offputting thing abt me is the way i look at ppl, ND ppl can have an almost 'flat' or 'intense' stare that makes ppl rather uneasy
also what did they say it was abt ur personality, describe what puts them off I'm curious
 
probably, people get put off by autistic ppl
if its any help I've been told the most offputting thing abt me is the way i look at ppl, ND ppl can have an almost 'flat' or 'intense' stare that makes ppl rather uneasy
also what did they say it was abt ur personality, describe what puts them off I'm curious
Normies don't like autistic people no matter what we do. We give thrm the ick. At best we are dildos to them or someone to use. I've just always dealt with BS from women my whole life. But the other day, a woman was using girls speech and was shit talking at me. I'm a man and felt awkward. If it was another man, I wouldve had a right go at him. Surprisingly, a girl who was there with us stood up for me. I think she is autistic as well but she's really shy.
 
Normies don't like autistic people no matter what we do. We give thrm the ick. At best we are dildos to them or someone to use. I've just always dealt with BS from women my whole life. But the other day, a woman was using girls speech and was shit talking at me. I'm a man and felt awkward and surprisingly a girl who was there with us stood up for me. I think she is autistic as well but she's really shy.
from my own experience
date another autist jfl (no but srsly, it makes life easier and u wont feel the need to compensate n pretend anymore)
 
from my own experience
date another autist jfl (no but srsly, it makes life easier and u wont feel the need to compensate n pretend anymore)
I wish I could but there's no way to meet any of them. Ive had autistic girls look at me speechless. So, I'm quite attractive to some of y'all. Why did that girl stick up for me?
 
I wish I could but there's no way to meet any of them. Ive had autistic girls look at me speechless. So, I'm quite attractive to some of y'all. Why did that girl stick up for me?
lure her in w her special interests or js be attentive to her interests
its very rare a guy would listen to me ramble on abt junji ito n i would be amazed if one did tbh
 
lure her in w her special interests or js be attentive to her interests
its very rare a guy would listen to me ramble on abt junji ito n i would be amazed if one did tbh
I don't know. I feel like whenever I try and talk to her I feel like an nuisance and what I may say could be overly bearing and make her feel uncomfortable, because im quite direct. She even criticised another guy for rambling on about strange things to her. Im a rambler, lol.

If she does linger around me like she did the other day again, I will try and ask her questions about her hobbies. Im glad you mentioned this because I thought of doing this last night. The only problem is, im like in my late 20s and she's 17. That's why I don't really want to talk to her unless she tries but she's so shy. Like I said, it's up to her, not me. I did noticed when I first sat down in front of her, she looked right at me and did this type of puzzled stare look at me for a good two seconds or so.
 
I don't know. I feel like whenever I try and talk to her I feel like an nuisance and what I may say could be overly bearing and make her feel uncomfortable, because im quite direct. She even criticised another guy for rambling on about strange things to her.

If she does linger around me like she did the other day again, I will try and ask her questions about her hobbies. Im glad you mentioned this because I thought of doing this last night. The only problem is, im like in my late 20s and she's 17. That's why I don't really want to talk to her unless she tries but she's so shy. Like I said, it's up to her, not me. I did noticed when I first sat down in front of her, she looked right at me and did this type puzzled type of stare look at me for a good two seconds or so.
was this in like a work setting as this is an interesting age gap that dont normally come about ?
some girls prefer to be prompted into doing the talking rather than being talked at
 
was this in like a work setting as this is an interesting age gap that dont normally come about ?
some girls prefer to be prompted into doing the talking rather than being talked at
Yes, it's at work. I dunno, I just dont think it's meant to be this hard. I'll just wait and see if she makes it obvious. The last girl I liked a lot was around her age as well, lol.

When I last was talking with her. I was smiling a lot trying to make it obvious to her. So, it's up to her now.
 
Requirements

- Big fucking dick like you need a nice juicy cock that’s most important

- Muscular but some like twinks like them so it depends

- Financially free somewhat
well do u have that
 
It's official. I can only recall the female gender as a whole hating on me in some form or another throughout the entirety of my life. Heck, even when I looked objectively my best, girls still had this type of disgust towards me but I looked good so they looked past it to some degree most of the time.

Yeah, I can get the occasional ONS with a mid looking chick. But I don't think there's anything worse than having a ONS and the girl is completely emotionally closed off and just laying there. These very same women don't want to be seen in public with me, but they sure as hell want to be screw behind closed doors. It's very painful that women view me as someone beneath them so much so that they don't want to be seen in public with me because i'll 'lower her status.'

All I want is a relationship where I recieve affection from a woman and can help explore her body while fulfilling her needs in the process. I don't think it's in the cards for me as I've been single for around 15 or so years. I feel like women have collectively written me off as some defected dude. It got so bad years ago that I stopped even looking at women or communicating with them while carrying myself in a very relaxed and layed back kind of way when I was around them and they noticed this and here I am today. The false hope the girls gave me brought me back into the dating scene because at age 22, (im gen z btw), I fully gave up on women and I kind of regret taking myself out of that mentality, because I was at such a state of peace it's hard to put into words. I find myself yearning for it and just calling it quits. If I do find myself leaning into it, I will be so relaxed and at peace with my situation that no woman in the world could convince me that she is being genuine with me. Once that day comes, I will let go and never deal with another woman ever again.

I'm starting to get old, and this isn't working. All of the surgeries, lifting, softmaxing, confidence maxing hasn't resulted in anything serious taking place for me with women. Its like they enjoy leading men on like me collectively. But at the end of the day, my track record speaks for itself and soon i'll know once and for all where I stand. I didn't want this, but women do. All I ever wanted was a loving relationship where I give my full loyalty to one special woman. But that aint reality, so it seems.
average ugly guy experience can relate
 
It's official. I can only recall the female gender as a whole hating on me in some form or another throughout the entirety of my life. Heck, even when I looked objectively my best, girls still had this type of disgust towards me but I looked good so they looked past it to some degree most of the time.

Yeah, I can get the occasional ONS with a mid looking chick. But I don't think there's anything worse than having a ONS and the girl is completely emotionally closed off and just laying there. These very same women don't want to be seen in public with me, but they sure as hell want to be screw behind closed doors. It's very painful that women view me as someone beneath them so much so that they don't want to be seen in public with me because i'll 'lower her status.'

All I want is a relationship where I recieve affection from a woman and can help explore her body while fulfilling her needs in the process. I don't think it's in the cards for me as I've been single for around 15 or so years. I feel like women have collectively written me off as some defected dude. It got so bad years ago that I stopped even looking at women or communicating with them while carrying myself in a very relaxed and layed back kind of way when I was around them and they noticed this and here I am today. The false hope the girls gave me brought me back into the dating scene because at age 22, (im gen z btw), I fully gave up on women and I kind of regret taking myself out of that mentality, because I was at such a state of peace it's hard to put into words. I find myself yearning for it and just calling it quits. If I do find myself leaning into it, I will be so relaxed and at peace with my situation that no woman in the world could convince me that she is being genuine with me. Once that day comes, I will let go and never deal with another woman ever again.

I'm starting to get old, and this isn't working. All of the surgeries, lifting, softmaxing, confidence maxing hasn't resulted in anything serious taking place for me with women. Its like they enjoy leading men on like me collectively. But at the end of the day, my track record speaks for itself and soon i'll know once and for all where I stand. I didn't want this, but women do. All I ever wanted was a loving relationship where I give my full loyalty to one special woman. But that aint reality, so it seems.
Dnr but u must become the zestiest version of you and you will get women
 
It's official. I can only recall the female gender as a whole hating on me in some form or another throughout the entirety of my life. Heck, even when I looked objectively my best, girls still had this type of disgust towards me but I looked good so they looked past it to some degree most of the time.

Yeah, I can get the occasional ONS with a mid looking chick. But I don't think there's anything worse than having a ONS and the girl is completely emotionally closed off and just laying there. These very same women don't want to be seen in public with me, but they sure as hell want to be screw behind closed doors. It's very painful that women view me as someone beneath them so much so that they don't want to be seen in public with me because i'll 'lower her status.'

All I want is a relationship where I recieve affection from a woman and can help explore her body while fulfilling her needs in the process. I don't think it's in the cards for me as I've been single for around 15 or so years. I feel like women have collectively written me off as some defected dude. It got so bad years ago that I stopped even looking at women or communicating with them while carrying myself in a very relaxed and layed back kind of way when I was around them and they noticed this and here I am today. The false hope the girls gave me brought me back into the dating scene because at age 22, (im gen z btw), I fully gave up on women and I kind of regret taking myself out of that mentality, because I was at such a state of peace it's hard to put into words. I find myself yearning for it and just calling it quits. If I do find myself leaning into it, I will be so relaxed and at peace with my situation that no woman in the world could convince me that she is being genuine with me. Once that day comes, I will let go and never deal with another woman ever again.

I'm starting to get old, and this isn't working. All of the surgeries, lifting, softmaxing, confidence maxing hasn't resulted in anything serious taking place for me with women. Its like they enjoy leading men on like me collectively. But at the end of the day, my track record speaks for itself and soon i'll know once and for all where I stand. I didn't want this, but women do. All I ever wanted was a loving relationship where I give my full loyalty to one special woman. But that aint reality, so it seems.
holy shit i have never read anything more true than this here. even after i get the surgeries in a year or two, i will have graduated and missed out on having a normal friend group, talking to normal girls, going out at night, etc.
 

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