Poll what's your love language?

[junebug]

copied from some random site if you don't know what they are:

• The concept of "love languages" shows couples how to give each other love in ways that it is best received.
• An example of the "words of affirmation" love language might be when one partner compliments or thanks the other.
• Those who prefer the "quality time" love language might enjoy taking trips or having deep conversations with their partner.

 

[Deleted Member 130757]

Touch but i am a filthy e dater so?

 

[Deleted Member 129933]

Gay sex

 

[Deleted Member 129933]

Touch but i am a lovely e dater so?

fixed it

 

[junebug]

Gay sex

so put down physical touch

 

[rand anon]

I feel like physical touch is a cop out/given for men, so I chose my second choice

 

[junebug]

I feel like physical touch is a cop out/given for men, so I chose my second choice

I've always been super touch averse to everyone unless it was someone I had a crush on

 

[icnone]

idk I've always felt unvalued by people
so if someone were to break through that wall
I would do anything for them

 

[rand anon]

I've always been super touch averse to everyone unless it was someone I had a crush on

Yeah, I think that’s mostly a women thing. Even if they rly like someone, many of them are touch averse. Whereas men regardless rly like touch from women regardless of the relationship quality

 

[junebug]

Yeah, I think that’s mostly a women thing. Even if they rly like someone, many of them are touch averse. Whereas men regardless rly like touch from women regardless of the relationship quality

really! :-0 that makes sense now that you say it
I would say for me acts of service is my least favorite though I hate having people do things for me. gifts are nice but I also feel bad accepting them. physical touch and quality time are a coin flip, I REALLY like them if I like the person but if I don't they're not important. and words of affirmation are nice from anyone at any time tbh

 

[rand anon]

really! :-0 that makes sense now that you say it
I would say for me acts of service is my least favorite though I hate having people do things for me.

If they’re like grand, over the top, acts of service, then yeah me too. But I like, or atleast I think I would like, lowkey acts of service. Like maybe occasionally doing my house chores, making sure I don’t forget something, throwing my clothes from the washer to the dryer, stuff like that

gifts are nice but I also feel bad accepting them.

Yeah same, it’d feel icky to me, like I owe them back. Same reason why I don’t like grandeur acts of service. It’s also a rly easy way to show fake appreciation

physical touch and quality time are a coin flip, I REALLY like them if I like the person but if I don't they're not important. and words of affirmation are nice from anyone at any time tbh

For me, it’s just rly hard to believe words of affirmation. Showing actions through small, but meaningful, acts of service, hits way harder for me

 

[junebug]

If they’re like grand, over the top, acts of service, then yeah me too. But I like, or atleast I think I would like, lowkey acts of service. Like maybe occasionally doing my house chores, making sure I don’t forget something, throwing my clothes from the washer to the dryer, stuff like that

Yeah same, it’d feel icky to me, like I owe them back. Same reason why I don’t like grandeur acts of service. It’s also a rly easy way to show fake appreciation

For me, it’s just rly hard to believe words of affirmation. Showing actions through small, but meaningful, acts of service, hits way harder for me

that's fair lmao I just like hearing how much I'm valued

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

I don’t like physical touch I let them do it but I feel like a r**e victim

 

[submissivechud]

I don’t like physical touch I let them do it but I feel like a r**e victim

hot

 

[LeoK]

Words of affirmation

 

[rand anon]

that's fair lmao I just like hearing how much I'm valued

I think that’s a lot of people, I prob just hve trust issues

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

hot

I don’t understand why some people like it tho it’s just uncomfortable and suffocating

 

[junebug]

I don’t like physical touch I let them do it but I feel like a r**e victim

my family hugs me and it feels like I'm getting squished and I feel really uncomfortable but whenever I get lonely a hug sounds really nice and warm and soft

 

[Xx_JihadiNafriggER22_xX]

copied from some random site if you don't know what they are:

• The concept of "love languages" shows couples how to give each other love in ways that it is best received.
• An example of the "words of affirmation" love language might be when one partner compliments or thanks the other.
• Those who prefer the "quality time" love language might enjoy taking trips or having deep conversations with their partner.

does abuse count as physical touch

 

[submissivechud]

I don’t understand why some people like it tho it’s just uncomfortable and suffocating

I don't touch enough people
I want a girl to cling to me and kiss me bunches

 

[junebug]

does abuse count as physical touch

idk why do you abuse me

 

[submissivechud]

does abuse count as physical touch

hopefully

 

[Deleted Member 76607]

my family hugs me and it feels like I'm getting squished and I feel really uncomfortable but whenever I get lonely a hug sounds really nice and warm and soft

One of my exs was really clingy and it bothered me so much I almost broke up with her because of it

 

[polgrev]

copied from some random site if you don't know what they are:

• The concept of "love languages" shows couples how to give each other love in ways that it is best received.
• An example of the "words of affirmation" love language might be when one partner compliments or thanks the other.
• Those who prefer the "quality time" love language might enjoy taking trips or having deep conversations with their partner.

when they fondle my penis

 

[junebug]

I don't touch enough people
I want a girl to cling to me and kiss me bunches

lowkey same I want a kiss really bad
I'm ok with waiting though

 

[junebug]

One of my exs was really clingy and it bothered me so much I almost broke up with her because of it

based

 

[junebug]

when they fondle my penis

just put physical touch bro

 

[pauseboicarti]

sough rex

 

[polgrev]

just put physical touch bro

uhm you didnt put fondling my penis as an option? theyre two different things

 

[junebug]

uhm you didnt put fondling my penis as an option? theyre two different things

thats touching

 

[polgrev]

thats touching

no its fondling

 

[junebug]

sough rex

what are they feeding yall

 

[pauseboicarti]

what are they feeding yall

its 2am in EU rn we feisty

 

[Aryy]

copied from some random site if you don't know what they are:

• The concept of "love languages" shows couples how to give each other love in ways that it is best received.
• An example of the "words of affirmation" love language might be when one partner compliments or thanks the other.
• Those who prefer the "quality time" love language might enjoy taking trips or having deep conversations with their partner.

I really like physical touch
like if im comfortable and actually consider someone even a friend im very touchy ngl

 

[junebug]

I really like physical touch
like if im comfortable and actually consider someone even a friend im very touchy ngl

it freaks me out unless I really like the person ngl
I have had people randomly grab me by the waist and it legit makes me jump

 

[Aryy]

it freaks me out unless I really like the person ngl
I have had people randomly grab me by the waist and it legit makes me jump

well i rarely consider someone a friend so i don’t do it often
but yeah i wont do if i know they dont like

 

[Inanimate Pragmatist]

copied from some random site if you don't know what they are:

• The concept of "love languages" shows couples how to give each other love in ways that it is best received.
• An example of the "words of affirmation" love language might be when one partner compliments or thanks the other.
• Those who prefer the "quality time" love language might enjoy taking trips or having deep conversations with their partner.

Sex? Basic bonding?

 

[junebug]

Sex? Basic bonding?

either physical touch or quality time, whichever you think of as more significant.

 

[Angel]

copied from some random site if you don't know what they are:

• The concept of "love languages" shows couples how to give each other love in ways that it is best received.
• An example of the "words of affirmation" love language might be when one partner compliments or thanks the other.
• Those who prefer the "quality time" love language might enjoy taking trips or having deep conversations with their partner.

i'll do the quiz n lyk

 

[klyro]

copied from some random site if you don't know what they are:

• The concept of "love languages" shows couples how to give each other love in ways that it is best received.
• An example of the "words of affirmation" love language might be when one partner compliments or thanks the other.
• Those who prefer the "quality time" love language might enjoy taking trips or having deep conversations with their partner.

Say gex

 

[Tealovingfool]

Putting this question on a forum with a large amount of incels who dont know the answer?

 

[Slayer_inTraining]

copied from some random site if you don't know what they are:

• The concept of "love languages" shows couples how to give each other love in ways that it is best received.
• An example of the "words of affirmation" love language might be when one partner compliments or thanks the other.
• Those who prefer the "quality time" love language might enjoy taking trips or having deep conversations with their partner.

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