as a girl I feel like it overall depends on what type of boy they’re into, if they like “nerdy guys” they mean a pretty boy, if they like “athletic guys” it’s 50/50, if they like “bad boys” it’s obv robust or chad. But physique matters a lot too, I feel like the ideal for females my age is an attractive boy (pretty or robust) with a lean muscular physique. I personally like pretty boys and robust evenly, if not pretty boys a bit more, but I’m also an extremely feminine person. As long as she feels safe around you and is physically and emotionally connected, you’re good imo