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Why being a PUA doesn't work

General Horst

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So why doesn't being a PUA work?


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The thing bluepillers get wrong is who is actually the one choosing. Even if you approach a foid it's the foid who picks (or doesn't pick) you. foids pick men. Not the other way around. They hold all the power in the markets (inf. SMV). Men are more generous with their distribution of romantic and sexual interest than women . Far more generous. Women have far more options and they are far pickier than men( again inf. SMV). There are far more women who men would reject than are men who women would accept.


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Women find tall men attractive. This is an undeniable fact. I doubt anyone denies this. Short men have abysmal chances to find romantic opportunities.



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So if you don't make it in height and facial attractiveness then you should try to have more of that infamous "pewsonalitee" right?



Your attractiveness IS your personality. There is a strong correlation with your physical attractiveness and your personality.


The reason PUA and approaching doesn't work and there is no such thing as game or personality is because it takes some milliseconds to decide whether someone is attractive to women or not.



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Attraction is predetermined. They have already decided whether you are attractive or not before you can make your move and play your "game" or show off your "personality."


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When women see you for less than half a second they have already made up their mind. You are not tall enough. You are not attractive enough. Nothing that comes out of your mouth will change their opinion. If foids see an attractive and tall man, it doesn't matter what comes out of their mouth. They can be nice, rude, arrogant, confident, timid, shy, sociable, tense, whatever. They can run whatever "game" they want because their attraction was predetermined
BEFORE they opened their mouth.


The amount of plates you lift
doesn't matter. The clothes you wear don't matter. The education you have doesn't matter. The classique literature you have read doesn't matter.


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There are men who play video games and abuse recreational drugs all day (marijuana ) but they have no trouble getting women. There are men who go to prison once a year and they run harems


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There are men who beat up their girlfriends frequently but they are always in a relationship and never struggle to date. And everyone blames the incel who is never given a chance to go on a date while Chad is killing his girlfriend.

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(Broootal

Over for PUA and redpilled people)
 
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So why doesn't being a PUA work?


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The thing bluepillers get wrong is who is actually the one choosing. Even if you approach a foid it's the foid who picks (or doesn't pick) you. foids pick men. Not the other way around. They hold all the power in the markets (inf. SMV). Men are more generous with their distribution of romantic and sexual interest than women . Far more generous. Women have far more options and they are far pickier than men( again inf. SMV). There are far more women who men would reject than are men who women would accept.


✦•··················•✦•··················•✦


Women find tall men attractive. This is an undeniable fact. I doubt anyone denies this. Short men have abysmal chances to find romantic opportunities.



View attachment 101480


So if you don't make it in height and facial attractiveness then you should try to have more of that infamous "pewsonalitee" right?



Your attractiveness IS your personality. There is a strong correlation with your physical attractiveness and your personality.


The reason PUA and approaching doesn't work and there is no such thing as game or personality is because it takes some milliseconds to decide whether someone is attractive to women or not.



Source


Attraction is predetermined. They have already decided whether you are attractive or not before you can make your move and play your "game" or show off your "personality."


✦•··················•✦•··················•✦


When women see you for less than half a second they have already made up their mind. You are not tall enough. You are not attractive enough. Nothing that comes out of your mouth will change their opinion. If foids see an attractive and tall man, it doesn't matter what comes out of their mouth. They can be nice, rude, arrogant, confident, timid, shy, sociable, tense, whatever. They can run whatever "game" they want because their attraction was predetermined
BEFORE they opened their mouth.


The amount of plates you lift
doesn't matter. The clothes you wear don't matter. The education you have doesn't matter. The classique literature you have read doesn't matter.


Source


There are men who play video games and abuse recreational drugs all day (marijuana ) but they have no trouble getting women. There are men who go to prison once a year and they run harems


View attachment 101483


There are men who beat up their girlfriends frequently but they are always in a relationship and never struggle to date. And everyone blames the incel who is never given a chance to go on a date while Chad is killing his girlfriend.

View attachment 101484

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(Broootal

Over for PUA and redpilled people)
Except :

1/ Most women on dating apps are degenerates high standards girls, because they can't find a man IRL so they rely on dating apps to find a 6'6 turbo chad

2/ Despite i agree that women have infinite SMV and ton of options, the options aren't qualitative enough to her taste or to match the LTR standards
So unless she's into being passed around & pumped/dumped, women didn't have much options for a LTR, that's why you see them sometimes "settling down" with an ugly doormat.
 
Except :

1/ Most women on dating apps are degenerates high standards girls, because they can't find a man IRL so they rely on dating apps to find a 6'6 turbo chad

2/ Despite i agree that women have infinite SMV and ton of options, the options aren't qualitative enough to her taste or to match the LTR standards
So unless she's into being passed around & pumped/dumped, women didn't have much options for a LTR, that's why you see them sometimes "settling down" with an ugly doormat.
trall this is true. the friend i have on dating apps just uses it to find above average guys to fuck/try and be in a relationship w them. they always end up dumping her for a new girl, and she gets heartbroken for weeks. in the end she'll probably end up w a normal/ugly looking guy bc she'll feel the need to settle down.
 
So why doesn't being a PUA work?


✦•··················•✦•··················•✦


The thing bluepillers get wrong is who is actually the one choosing. Even if you approach a foid it's the foid who picks (or doesn't pick) you. foids pick men. Not the other way around. They hold all the power in the markets (inf. SMV). Men are more generous with their distribution of romantic and sexual interest than women . Far more generous. Women have far more options and they are far pickier than men( again inf. SMV). There are far more women who men would reject than are men who women would accept.


✦•··················•✦•··················•✦


Women find tall men attractive. This is an undeniable fact. I doubt anyone denies this. Short men have abysmal chances to find romantic opportunities.



View attachment 101480


So if you don't make it in height and facial attractiveness then you should try to have more of that infamous "pewsonalitee" right?



Your attractiveness IS your personality. There is a strong correlation with your physical attractiveness and your personality.


The reason PUA and approaching doesn't work and there is no such thing as game or personality is because it takes some milliseconds to decide whether someone is attractive to women or not.



Source


Attraction is predetermined. They have already decided whether you are attractive or not before you can make your move and play your "game" or show off your "personality."


✦•··················•✦•··················•✦


When women see you for less than half a second they have already made up their mind. You are not tall enough. You are not attractive enough. Nothing that comes out of your mouth will change their opinion. If foids see an attractive and tall man, it doesn't matter what comes out of their mouth. They can be nice, rude, arrogant, confident, timid, shy, sociable, tense, whatever. They can run whatever "game" they want because their attraction was predetermined
BEFORE they opened their mouth.


The amount of plates you lift
doesn't matter. The clothes you wear don't matter. The education you have doesn't matter. The classique literature you have read doesn't matter.


Source


There are men who play video games and abuse recreational drugs all day (marijuana ) but they have no trouble getting women. There are men who go to prison once a year and they run harems


View attachment 101483


There are men who beat up their girlfriends frequently but they are always in a relationship and never struggle to date. And everyone blames the incel who is never given a chance to go on a date while Chad is killing his girlfriend.

View attachment 101484

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(Broootal

Over for PUA and redpilled people)
tldr only looks matter
 

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