why do girls like me more when i act like a dick

[xoxo]

yeah ik but in past relationships every time i’ve been myself it’s ended badly for me which has unfortunately changed me in a way i don’t really have control over, it’s just like a defense mechanism or something as i don’t really let people get close to me anyway so it’s kinda the same for romantic relationships now

Ig I can’t take my own advice either
I’m scared of even starting relationship at all because l don’t wanna be myself

 

[junebug]

every single time i’ve gotten a girl it’s cause i was basically being an asshole and treating them terribly and talking badly to them. this is super confusing to me as when i actually like a girl i try be the traditionally romantic nice guy and it always blows up in my face.

maybe it’s just against my nature and they can tell it’s forced. but even if that’s the case it doesn’t make sense that i get good responses from being a dick

any women here can weigh in on this?

@esoteric @junebug @Angel

Some women have a tendency to accept challenges, if they think they have to "win" you they try harder to get your attention. I went through that phase before realizing it was dumb as fuck and nice guys are the ones you rly should be going for

Women who have matured past that will get more common as you age I think but there will always be those select few that take everything as a dating sim lmao

 

[trenghost]

yeah this, girls like it a lot when i have like “moments of tenderness” (idk what else to call it but that just sounds weird but i digress) and they think they are seeing the real me or something but it’s more like i just be emotional sometimes

one of my female friends likes that the other ignores it
maybe i should stop talking to her idk
like most times i show vulnerability at all she just dismisses it like she dont care
im wasting my time tryna tell anyone how i feel

 

[xoxo]

one of my female friends likes that the other ignores it
maybe i should stop talking to her idk
like most times i show vulnerability at all she just dismisses it like she dont care
im wasting my time tryna tell anyone how i feel

That’s ass
The right girl will appreciate u as u are

 

[Zygos]

That’s ass
The right girl will appreciate u as u are

i think that everyone is capable of finding their “one” but it’s not a guarantee it will ever happen

 

[xoxo]

i think that everyone is capable of finding their “one” but it’s not a guarantee it will ever happen

It’s easier to find that one when ur attractive

 

[trenghost]

That’s ass
The right girl will appreciate u as u are

i can only dream and ascend

 

[Zygos]

It’s easier to find that one when ur attractive

tis why we are here. may we all ascend

 

[xoxo]

Yup

i can only dream and ascend

 

[xoxo]

tis why we are here. may we all ascend

Amen

 

[trenghost]

one of my female friends likes that the other ignores it
maybe i should stop talking to her idk
like most times i show vulnerability at all she just dismisses it like she dont care
im wasting my time tryna tell anyone how i feel

ever since my fuckass parents discovered i have tiktok they gave me a lotta punishments and took my phone and forced me to remove my account
i havent been able to text any of my friends on there including that one hg who i think is the first girl i met who genuinely cared about me
istg it was a blessing

 

[trenghost]

ever since my fuckass parents discovered i have tiktok they gave me a lotta punishments and took my phone and forced me to remove my account
i havent been able to text any of my friends on there including that one hg who i think is the first girl i met who genuinely cared about me
istg it was a blessing

she definitely doesnt like me the way i like her though
im sure she just sees me as a friend

 

[Venus]

every single time i’ve gotten a girl it’s cause i was basically being an asshole and treating them terribly and talking badly to them. this is super confusing to me as when i actually like a girl i try be the traditionally romantic nice guy and it always blows up in my face.

maybe it’s just against my nature and they can tell it’s forced. but even if that’s the case it doesn’t make sense that i get good responses from being a dick

any women here can weigh in on this?

@esoteric @junebug @Angel

Bro whenever im not interested in a girl at all and talk to her like shit she becomes weirdly obsessed with me

But when i actually like the girl and make an effort to talk to her she wants nothing to do with me idk

 

[Br4va]

Lbunp

 

[trenghost]

Bro whenever im not interested in a girl at all and talk to her like shit she becomes weirdly obsessed with me

But when i actually like the girl and make an effort to talk to her she wants nothing to do with me idk

are you not a foid

 

[Zygos]

are you not a foid

les

 

[trenghost]

Lbunp

 

[trenghost]

les

what

 

[Br4va]

Death

 

[Venus]

are you not a foid

f****t

 

[Zygos]

what

she likes girls

 

[trenghost]

f****t

nvm

 

[esoteric]

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real though this is why

 

[Zygos]

real though this is why

yes seemed to be the common consensus which is kinda sad tbh

 

[esoteric]

yes seemed to be the common consensus which is kinda sad tbh

yeah i guess just be a bitch and enjoy