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Discussion Why do women say the "objectification" is bad?

Superbia

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You see this kind of complaint everywhere. Any time a guy talks about a woman's physical attractiveness, or more commonly about her sex appeal, it's labeled as "objectifying" and judged as bad.

But what's so bad about objectification? You're objectifying somebody to the extent that your intentions are directed towards their body. Because the body is the object. But why is that bad, again? Our intentions are directed towards people's bodies all the time - any time you use physical help from someone, whether in paying for a service or receiving a favor, you're using their body. Their body is reduced to a machine to do some physical task for you. You're not denying their humanity in any way by doing this - to the extent that you're not restricting their rights or abusing them in any way, and they consent to whatever they're doing for you, you're acknowledging their humanity.

This applies to sexual attraction. A guy desiring a woman's body, with no mention of her mind or personality, is not necessarily bad. What's the offence here? Commenting on someone's sex appeal doesn't imply "this woman is a body with no mind, ah if i could get ahold of her i would treat her like a sex doll." any more than thinking about hiring a plumber implies you want to use their body as a plumbing machine.

Same thing with the term "fetishizing". A fetish is a strong sexual attraction towards body parts, situations, activities or objects. Presumably not sexual characteristics. So any time you have a particular attraction to a feature of someone's body, clothing, personality, etc. you're fetishizing them. So i guess if fetishizing is bad, then you're only allowed to be attracted to people for their sexual characteristics? LMAO
 
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You see this kind of complaint everywhere. Any time a guy talks about a woman's physical attractiveness, or more commonly about her sex appeal, it's labeled as "objectifying" and judged as bad.

But what's so bad about objectification? You're objectifying somebody to the extent that your intentions are directed towards their body. Because the body is the object. But why is that bad, again? Our intentions are directed towards people's bodies all the time - any time you use physical help from someone, whether in paying for a service or receiving a favor, you're using their body. Their body is reduced to a machine to do some physical task for you. You're not denying their humanity in any way by doing this - to the extent that you're not restricting their rights or abusing them in any way, and they consent to whatever they're doing for you, you're acknowledging their humanity.

This applies to sexual attraction. A guy desiring a woman's body, with no mention of her mind or personality, is not necessarily bad. What's the offence here? Commenting on someone's sex appeal doesn't imply "this woman is a body with no mind, ah if i could get ahold of her i would treat her like a sex doll." any more than thinking about hiring a plumber implies you want to use their body as a plumbing machine.

Same thing with the term "fetishizing". A fetish is a strong sexual attraction towards body parts, situations, activities or objects. Presumably not sexual characteristics. So any time you have a particular attraction to a feature of someone's body, clothing, personality, etc. you're fetishizing them. So i guess if fetishizing is bad, then you're only allowed to be attracted to people for their sexual characteristics? LMAO
It's creepy if the objectifier is subhuman

Flattering if it's chad

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The body isn't an object it'd part of someone. Wanting to have sex with someone and/or finding them sexually attractive isn't negative but if you use someone for that against their knowledge or constent then yeah it's bad
 
The body isn't an object it'd part of someone.
What is it if not an object? What?

Wanting to have sex with someone and/or finding them sexually attractive isn't negative but if you use someone for that against their knowledge or constent then yeah it's bad
That's just r**e, not whatever "objectification" is used to denote 99% of the time.
 
What is it if not an object? What?
Part of someone that's like saying ur just a brain nothing else so therefore anything you do with ur body doesn't matter
That's just r**e, not whatever "objectification" is used to denote 99% of the time
Nah I'm talking about catcalling and shit too
 
I feel bad when I’m being objectified because I’m insecure btw, if not I’d be flattered
sameee
‘ur body is so nice’
then i rant abt how it’s not and they run tf away from me
 
A woman shouldn't wear clothes that leaves ass and boobs dents if she doesn't want to be objectified
 
Part of someone that's like saying ur just a brain nothing else so therefore anything you do with ur body doesn't matter
Even if you choose include people's bodies into what you define as their personhood, i still fail to see how a part of someone can't be an object.

Nah I'm talking about catcalling and shit too
This is just transgressing social norms and personal boundaries, not really about objectification itself.
 
the quote i was replying said "using them" and i assumed he meant physically
but im not wrong. you can fuck with them and they enjoy it thats not called r**e, they didnt even know you used them.
r**e is basically meaning you fucked someone against their will.
 
You see this kind of complaint everywhere. Any time a guy talks about a woman's physical attractiveness, or more commonly about her sex appeal, it's labeled as "objectifying" and judged as bad.

But what's so bad about objectification? You're objectifying somebody to the extent that your intentions are directed towards their body. Because the body is the object. But why is that bad, again? Our intentions are directed towards people's bodies all the time - any time you use physical help from someone, whether in paying for a service or receiving a favor, you're using their body. Their body is reduced to a machine to do some physical task for you. You're not denying their humanity in any way by doing this - to the extent that you're not restricting their rights or abusing them in any way, and they consent to whatever they're doing for you, you're acknowledging their humanity.

This applies to sexual attraction. A guy desiring a woman's body, with no mention of her mind or personality, is not necessarily bad. What's the offence here? Commenting on someone's sex appeal doesn't imply "this woman is a body with no mind, ah if i could get ahold of her i would treat her like a sex doll." any more than thinking about hiring a plumber implies you want to use their body as a plumbing machine.

Same thing with the term "fetishizing". A fetish is a strong sexual attraction towards body parts, situations, activities or objects. Presumably not sexual characteristics. So any time you have a particular attraction to a feature of someone's body, clothing, personality, etc. you're fetishizing them. So i guess if fetishizing is bad, then you're only allowed to be attracted to people for their sexual characteristics? LMAO
It’s bad when subhuman does it but not chad women use this to their convenience

Women justify emotion as reason to do something so they don’t even know they’re doing this if some subhuman calls them hot they will find some excuse to convince themselves and others it’s creepy but if chad does it somehow it’s hot
 
but im not wrong. you can fuck with them and they enjoy it thats not called r**e, they didnt even know you used them.
r**e is basically meaning you fucked someone against their will.
he said using someone against their knowledge or consent
 
It’s bad when subhuman does it but not chad women use this to their convenience

Women justify emotion as reason to do something so they don’t even know they’re doing this if some subhuman calls them hot they will find some excuse to convince themselves and others it’s creepy but if chad does it somehow it’s hot
it’s bc it’s more ‘valuable’ from a chad
a subhuman could call anything hot to try and pull
idk
 
he said using someone against their knowledge or consent
using someone against their knowledge isnt r**e OMFG.
are you fucking dumb?
do i need to repeat same shit everytime?
r**e is a severe form of sexual assault involving non-consensual sexual penetration, often involving force, coercion, or taking advantage of a victim's vulnerability.
 
It’s bad when subhuman does it but not chad women use this to their convenience

Women justify emotion as reason to do something so they don’t even know they’re doing this if some subhuman calls them hot they will find some excuse to convince themselves and others it’s creepy but if chad does it somehow it’s hot
what about situations where the women are the third party and the woman being "objectified" is a celebrity?

it happens on social media with men who don't show their face, but even if its IRL or they do show their face, the women who say this stuff are still a third party and have no stake in how attractive the guy is
 
it’s bc it’s more ‘valuable’ from a chad
a subhuman could call anything hot to try and pull
idk
I mean chad also calls anyone hot as long as he wants to fuck them tho something u learn with the BP is there is no such thing as a creep

A creep is basically someone who’s not attractive enough to pull of what he’s trying to do and the uglier u are the easier it is to be considered a creep meanwhile a legit chad would be virtually immune to it

If ur sub Normie even a hello to someone can get u called a creep for instance ppl have their guard up 24/7
 
using someone against their knowledge isnt r**e OMFG.
are you fucking dumb?
do i need to repeat same shit everytime?
r**e is a severe form of sexual assault involving non-consensual sexual penetration, often involving force, coercion, or taking advantage of a victim's vulnerability.
@Superbia are you gonna ignore me? ofc
 
using someone against their knowledge isnt r**e OMFG.
are you fucking dumb?
do i need to repeat same shit everytime?
r**e is a severe form of sexual assault involving non-consensual sexual penetration, often involving force, coercion, or taking advantage of a victim's vulnerability.
are you trolling? using someone's body physically for sexual reasons without their consent or knowledge meets your definition
 
I mean chad also calls anyone hot as long as he wants to fuck them tho something u learn with the BP is there is no such thing as a creep

A creep is basically someone who’s not attractive enough to pull of what he’s trying to do and the uglier u are the easier it is to be considered a creep meanwhile a legit chad would be virtually immune to it

If ur sub Normie even a hello to someone can get u called a creep for instance ppl have their guard up 24/7
depends on ur definition of creep
if ur a pedo, have weird or illegal fetishes or anything like that then ur a creep regardless of ur looks
tho people will let anything slide these days
richard ramirez prime example
literal serial killer who gets glorified by stupid foids
 
are you trolling? using someone's body physically for sexual reasons without their consent or knowledge meets your definition
yes you are low iq
"the person doesn't agree to it, and it may happen through threats, force, or by taking advantage of them" i dont see without their knowledge
 
yes you are low iq
"the person doesn't agree to it, and it may happen through threats, force, or by taking advantage of them" i dont see without their knowledge
why did you omit the first part?

"r**e is a severe form of sexual assault involving non-consensual sexual penetration,"

acts only need to fit the first part of that definition, since the second part describes the other features as being present "often", implying there are instances of r**e which don't have them, therefore they're not necessary

and doing it without someone's knowledge necessarily implies that you're doing it without their consent, since to consent to something you need to have knowledge of it

not to mention i mentioned "without consent" in my post already
 
why did you omit the first part?

"r**e is a severe form of sexual assault involving non-consensual sexual penetration,"

acts only need to fit the first part of that definition, since the second part describes the other features as being present "often", implying there are instances of r**e which don't have them, therefore they're not necessary

and doing it without someone's knowledge necessarily implies that you're doing it without their consent, since to consent to something you need to have knowledge of it

not to mention i mentioned "without consent" in my post already
holy fuck if u use somebody for their body for sex and they don’t know ur using them but they still consented to the actual intercourse then it’s not fucking r**e
8/10 ragebait
 
because they are fat, ugly or old or all of it
 
holy fuck if u use somebody for their body for sex and they don’t know ur using them but they still consented to the actual intercourse then it’s not fucking r**e
8/10 ragebait
how do you consent to something you have no knowledge of?
 
so not what i was talking about
my example was about instances where the person has no knowledge of the sexual act
and r**e is talking about sex tf
 

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