Why does bullying feel worse than genuine disgust ?

[Deleted Member 113067]

In 7th grade I used to be really ugly. We were a group of people gathered around a round table bench. Some ppl were sitting and some standing behind. I was standing behind one of the kindest guys in that school. He was always nice to me and I swear he would never hurt a fly.

He opened his phone, went on snapchat and took a picture of himself and me behind his shoulder. Then he looked at the picture and exclaimed something like “ew no” and deleted the pic. He the immediately started apologising to me and I could tell that he felt embarrassed and was truly sorry.

But how brutal is it when someone who is genuinely a kind person accidentally show you their genuine disgust towards you. Same thing as when kids used to walk by me and ask their parents “whats that guy doing?” (im female). Their raw, innocent but insulting opinion about you. You know theyre not exaggerating anything, trying to make fun, or trying to get social points by mocking you like regular insults. Theyre not just trying to be mean.

People would yell insults to me from across the street or hallway, mock my 2 friends for associating with me, call me names, etc. But all that naturally is so much more exaggerated by factors outside of their genuine opinion. Yet in 7th grade I always felt way worse by this kind of friend group impressing bullying than kind peoples raw opinion slipping out on accident, and I dont know why because the latter is definitely more brutal.

@giga.mia @balenci @submissivechud @BigDihDiddy ⚦ @PingPong

 

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why an i tagged

 

[submissivechud]

In 7th grade I used to be really ugly. We were a group of people gathered around a round table bench. Some ppl were sitting and some standing behind. I was standing behind one of the kindest guys in that school. He was always nice to me and I swear he would never hurt a fly.

He opened his phone, went on snapchat and took a picture of himself and me behind his shoulder. Then he looked at the picture and exclaimed something like “ew no” and deleted the pic. He the immediately started apologising to me and I could tell that he felt embarrassed and was truly sorry.

But how brutal is it when someone who is genuinely a kind person accidentally show you their genuine disgust towards you. Same thing as when kids used to walk by me and ask their parents “whats that guy doing?” (im female). Their raw, innocent but insulting opinion about you. You know theyre not exaggerating anything, trying to make fun, or trying to get social points by mocking you like regular insults. Theyre not just trying to be mean.

People would yell insults to me from across the street or hallway, mock my 2 friends for associating with me, call me names, etc. But all that naturally is so much more exaggerated by factors outside of their genuine opinion. Yet in 7th grade I always felt way worse by this kind of friend group impressing bullying than kind peoples raw opinion slipping out on accident, and I dont know why because the latter is definitely more brutal.

@giga.mia @balenci @submissivechud @BigDihDiddy ⚦ @PingPong

Because anyone can be bullied, disgust is saved for people ostracized by society.

 

[Deleted Member 113067]

Because anyone can be bullied, disgust is saved for people ostracized by society.

that doesnt make sense

 

[PingPong]

why an i tagged

Silence.

 

[submissivechud]

that doesnt make sense

why
I've seen decent looking people get bullied before
but only ugly n*****s get treated with disgust and pity

 

[Nenestar]

damn. you must've been really ugly

 

[Deleted Member 113067]

why
I've seen decent looking people get bullied before
but only ugly n*****s get treated with disgust and pity

I feel like you dnr my post
I agree with you that disgust is more brutal, but I always felt way worse from bullying. So my question was; how can bullying feel worse when its like you say, anyone can be bullied but only uglies get treated with disgust and pity?

 

[vespertine]

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[WhitepiII]

beauty is on the inside

 

[submissivechud]

I feel like you dnr my post

I misread the title and dnred the last paragraph sorry

I agree with you that disgust is more brutal, but I always felt way worse from bullying. So my question was; how can bullying feel worse when its like you say, anyone can be bullied but only uglies get treated with disgust and pity?

I suppose it's different for different people
I would assume it's because it's more direct, the person goes out of their way to make you feel bad instead of indirectly

 

[submissivechud]

beauty is on the inside

 

[PingPong]

I always felt terrible about bullying because not being accepted and not being "allowed" in social circles is the most brutal feeling ever.

People who may have never interacted with you before feel you're below them simply because it's accepted to think that way. I've never been properly bullied before, but I've joined in on making fun of the class victim, shits disgusting and I regret it.

 

[JDD8]

Bullying is bad

 

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In 7th grade I used to be really ugly. We were a group of people gathered around a round table bench. Some ppl were sitting and some standing behind. I was standing behind one of the kindest guys in that school. He was always nice to me and I swear he would never hurt a fly.

He opened his phone, went on snapchat and took a picture of himself and me behind his shoulder. Then he looked at the picture and exclaimed something like “ew no” and deleted the pic. He the immediately started apologising to me and I could tell that he felt embarrassed and was truly sorry.

But how brutal is it when someone who is genuinely a kind person accidentally show you their genuine disgust towards you. Same thing as when kids used to walk by me and ask their parents “whats that guy doing?” (im female). Their raw, innocent but insulting opinion about you. You know theyre not exaggerating anything, trying to make fun, or trying to get social points by mocking you like regular insults. Theyre not just trying to be mean.

People would yell insults to me from across the street or hallway, mock my 2 friends for associating with me, call me names, etc. But all that naturally is so much more exaggerated by factors outside of their genuine opinion. Yet in 7th grade I always felt way worse by this kind of friend group impressing bullying than kind peoples raw opinion slipping out on accident, and I dont know why because the latter is definitely more brutal.

@giga.mia @balenci @submissivechud @BigDihDiddy ⚦ @PingPong

You are still ltb ,miss Mjolk

 

[Not2beau]

In 7th grade I used to be really ugly. We were a group of people gathered around a round table bench. Some ppl were sitting and some standing behind. I was standing behind one of the kindest guys in that school. He was always nice to me and I swear he would never hurt a fly.

He opened his phone, went on snapchat and took a picture of himself and me behind his shoulder. Then he looked at the picture and exclaimed something like “ew no” and deleted the pic. He the immediately started apologising to me and I could tell that he felt embarrassed and was truly sorry.

But how brutal is it when someone who is genuinely a kind person accidentally show you their genuine disgust towards you. Same thing as when kids used to walk by me and ask their parents “whats that guy doing?” (im female). Their raw, innocent but insulting opinion about you. You know theyre not exaggerating anything, trying to make fun, or trying to get social points by mocking you like regular insults. Theyre not just trying to be mean.

People would yell insults to me from across the street or hallway, mock my 2 friends for associating with me, call me names, etc. But all that naturally is so much more exaggerated by factors outside of their genuine opinion. Yet in 7th grade I always felt way worse by this kind of friend group impressing bullying than kind peoples raw opinion slipping out on accident, and I dont know why because the latter is definitely more brutal.

@giga.mia @balenci @submissivechud @BigDihDiddy ⚦ @PingPong

No way you this chopped lol

 

[Deleted Member 113067]

No way you this chopped lol

how ridiculous and insensitive when we are on a looksmaxxing forum

 

[Deleted Member 113067]

You are still ltb ,miss Mjolk

no, im lhtb now, and i feel like back then i mightve been even lower than ltb

 

[Suicidal&Lonely2007]

how old are you now or how long has it been since 7th grade

 

[limo8]

how old are you now or how long has it been since 7th grade

like 6 or 7 years give or take