worst thing about being an sensitive incel

[Deleted Member 85516]

yeah expected


id advice not to vent on here too much as the people here are no less disengenious then on .org

like i got shit i wanna cry about but i gotta stfu

follow me back tbh

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

follow me back tbh

yea sure

didnt know following existed on this app

 

[victorique]

looks retarded

brutal

 

[Deleted Member 85516]

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brutal

pfl of hope and dreams

 

[Endo]

it never gets better.
have been depressed and suicidal for 2 years now without a pause
I dont see it getting better anytime soon
I just want to die. But i fear what comes after death due to years of christian indoctrination
dont come at me with children in africa or some bullshit like that ik these are first world problems and that i should be grateful etc
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it always goes lower
good thing is that idrc about the opinion of people anymore
at least not as much as i used to do

how can people be religious?im talking religions like christianity where its talked about an all loving god
paganism is fine
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inb4 DNR LTN MANLET

Sucks for u man

 

[Incognito]

lowkey feel bad for him because religion is one of the last copes a truecel has

Nah, I don’t feel for him the way I feel for the non religious ones. For all we know this depression is a test pulling him closer to God. God could have stripped away the people in his life so that the only door left to knock on is god’s door.

And yes you are right that if you have no earthly success, being non religious will fuck your will to live

(Not on some fear mongering shit, this is just true)

Also let’s be honest even we the religious ones get deluded by this worldly life. Some of us think we need to hit some worldly success quota before we’re grateful. This is pure arrogance. Acting like god owes us something before we will believe in him.

Life is simple but it is is who make it hard.

You’ve got one slot in your heart for a priority. Either god comes first and the worldly life comes second and that doesn’t mean you abandon the world, just stop worshipping it, or vice versa.

And the moment you put god second, we should not act surprised when he returns the favor.

 

[Deleted Member 85516]

Nah, I don’t feel for him the way I feel for the non religious ones. For all we know this depression is a test pulling him closer to God. God could have stripped away the people in his life so that the only door left to knock on is god’s door.


Also let’s be honest even we the religious ones get deluded by this worldly life. Some of us think we need to hit some worldly success quota before we’re grateful. This is pure arrogance. Acting like god owes us something before we will believe in him.

Life is simple but it is is who make it hard.

You’ve got one slot in your heart for a priority. Either god comes first and the worldly life comes second and that doesn’t mean you abandon the world, just stop worshipping it, or vice versa.

And the moment you put god second, we should not act surprised when he returns the favor.

I used to put god first for years and my life just got worse
and when i wanted to kill myself due to depression i read the bible and prayed a lot
i read that if i put god first everything else will come
but it just got worse
and my bad mental health made me have aggresion issues and stuff like that->making me sin more often
but im talking about the christian god not allah.

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

I used to put god first for years and my life just got worse
and when i wanted to kill myself due to depression i read the bible and prayed a lot
i read that if i put god first everything else will come
but it just got worse
and my bad mental health made me have aggresion issues and stuff like that->making me sin more often
but im talking about the christian god not allah.

Probably the most frustrating part about religion as a religious person myself



Like its basically impossible to avoid sin if nobody likes you and you have no social life

You will naturally develop envy and hatred for people who have it better than you


I cant really give advice other than to thug it out, which might sound like cope but it is what it is

 

[Deleted Member 85516]

Probably the most frustrating part about religion as a religious person myself



Like its basically impossible to avoid sin if nobody likes you and you have no social life

You will naturally develop envy and hatred for people who have it better than you


I cant really give advice other than to thug it out, which might sound like cope but it is what it is

its okay
thats just where i slowly realized god cant be real

 

[Deleted Member 118059]

its okay
thats just where i slowly realized god cant be real

understandable tbh.


Enough suffering can make anyone crack


Im repeating myself again but i hope things get better

 

[Incognito]

I used to put god first for years and my life just got worse
and when i wanted to kill myself due to depression i read the bible and prayed a lot
i read that if i put god first everything else will come
but it just got worse
and my bad mental health made me have aggresion issues and stuff like that->making me sin more often
but im talking about the christian god not allah.

As I'm a Muslim and not a Christian I can give my opinion only from an Islamic perspective. In Islam, the principle that you're misinterpreting is called ibtila meaning trials and tribulations.

As stated in the Quran: "do people think they will be left alone saying 'we believe' and not be tested?" (29:2).

So tested. not rewarded on the spot. your life getting harder after turning to god doesn’t mean he abandoned you. It actually describes the experience of people he actually cares about.

The Prophet Muhammad was asked who faces the hardest trials, he said: the Prophets, then those closest to them, then the next level down.

So in Islam it’s suffering scaling with closeness.


So yes if you put god first, be sure everything follows. But brother not on your timeline, nor in the shape you imagined, and not without you also getting off your ass.

Islam does not see trust as passivity. Do what you can, then trust in Allah. Do not overlook the first part and hope that things will come from above.

Like I said this is the islamic perspective for the christian one it’s better to ask a christian.