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Am I the oldest truecel here?

I've never complained about appealing to emo girls


The only girls I can easily hookup and date are chubby women and landwhales. I don't know how to talk with anyone let alone women so I can't get through dates with my looksmatch. I think it's reasonable to be frustrated by that, I can't change my brain chemistry
I was the same when I was Ltn. U need to imrpvoe ur lookz to get what u want
 
I'm between dark and intellectual ones

I approach, they literally walk away as if I'm invisible. They are not scared nor disgusted, they just don't see me.
Also you need to get at least an instant of eye contact with a girl to get the validation of approach.
you should dress as some kind of medieval knight that would be pretty cool i think

is this a metaphor or they literally do not see you? Why not speak up so they see u ohh wait i get it you dont get eye contact w them so u cant approach thats so scary ur brave for even trying this just made my heart skip a beat i cant imagine having to not only lock eyes with someone else but then also have to master the confidence to approach and let them know our eye contact made me think they were interested bcs what if they did eye contact with me but didnt rlly like me then i just walk up to them and their like nooo ew accident eye contact or idk ok sorry
 
you should dress as some kind of medieval knight that would be pretty cool i think

is this a metaphor or they literally do not see you? Why not speak up so they see u ohh wait i get it you dont get eye contact w them so u cant approach thats so scary ur brave for even trying this just made my heart skip a beat i cant imagine having to not only lock eyes with someone else but then also have to master the confidence to approach and let them know our eye contact made me think they were interested bcs what if they did eye contact with me but didnt rlly like me then i just walk up to them and their like nooo ew accident eye contact or idk ok sorry
Yeah it's over
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what the flip are you saying lol
these are normie terms lol, I'm highly neurotic, I overthink every interaction and end up fumbling

And similar to u I haven't had friends since high school. The only reason I've ever had a social circle is through forced proximity, something that doesn't exist after high school
 
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The formula is to do the opposite and be what ppl want u to be. Problem is u cant put up a front for too long being something u aint
sounds too hard ill just be myself and pray another weird person comes along
yeah neither approach would work, I'm too nervous to be myself and it's too exhausting to mask as a normie
 
these are normie terms lol, I'm highly neurotic, I overthink every interaction and end up fumbling

And similar to u I haven't had friends since high school. The only reason I've ever had a social circle is through forced proximity, something that doesn't exist after high school
in middle school my friends used to baby me around making extreme efforts to include me thats why i had friends. But they treated me like i was disabled or smth.
a month ago some guy in my class approached me and asked if i needed friends and i just said no bcs it was pretty suspicious and its easier to just say no
I hope someone cool randomly strikes up a conversation w me
 
yeah neither approach would work, I'm too nervous to be myself and it's too exhausting to mask as a normie
im not sure what being myself means anymore because im constantly putting up a front
im not really sure how my voice sounds like because i rarely speak and when i do its only 2-3 words at a time and always rlly squeaky
like when u just wake up and u havent spoken for several hours so ur voice is untrained and u need to "warm up" but ive barely spoken for years
 
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a month ago some guy in my class approached me and asked if i needed friends and i just said no bcs it was pretty suspicious and its easier to just say no
I hope someone cool randomly strikes up a conversation w me
so did u just say no to him cause he was a guy or cause he didn't seem cool?

Either way it'll happen for u eventually, girls get approached all the time, whether it be by guys or by other girls for friends. And even if someone approached me to be friends I just find it too awkward to meet friends that way
 
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im not sure what being myself means anymore because im constantly putting up a front
that's what I mean by masking
im not really sure how my voice sounds like because i rarely speak and when i do its only 2-3 words at a time and always rlly squeaky

like when u just wake up and u havent spoken for several hours so ur voice is untrained and u need to "warm up" but ive barely spoken for years
it used to be like that for me as well, my folks call me more nowadays when I'm away for uni so I've haven't had that issue in awhile
 
so did u just say no to him cause he was a guy or cause he didn't seem cool?

Either way it'll happen for u eventually, girls get approached all the time, whether it be by guys or by other girls for friends. And even if someone approached me to be friends I just find it too awkward to meet friends that way
i told him no because he sounded like he was told to ask me by someone, and because its easier to just say no and suffer later than to put effort into making friends

i dont think its going to happen. The culture in sweden is very much against that. People do no speak to others in public. People will literally wait inside their homes when they go out if their neighbours are outside until its clear to step outside. Im also very unapproachable. Ive been told that i look really angry or scary.
 
that's what I mean by masking

it used to be like that for me as well, my folks call me more nowadays when I'm away for uni so I've haven't had that issue in awhile
i used to call random people on discord and read ted Kaczynski manifest until they hang up on me (it took hours sometimes)
 
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i told him no because he sounded like he was told to ask me by someone, a
I see
nd because its easier to just say no and suffer later than to put effort into making friends
yep yep
dont think its going to happen. The culture in sweden is very much against that. People do no speak to others in public. People will literally wait inside their homes when they go out if their neighbours are outside until its clear to step outside.
ah okay, yeah I've heard swedes are like that. You'd get hit on loads in the States, especially with ur pheno

Im also very unapproachable. Ive been told that i look really angry or scary.
I don't think u look angry or scary, but u do look nonchalant and kinda intimidating

i used to call random people on discord and read ted Kaczynski manifest until they hang up on me (it took hours sometimes)
based kween :rainbowpls:
 
I see

yep yep

ah okay, yeah I've heard swedes are like that. You'd get hit on loads in the States, especially with ur pheno


I don't think u look angry or scary, but u do look nonchalant and kinda intimidating


based kween :rainbowpls:
what country do u live in? do randoms in public approach u alot?
what is pheno? i doubt i would get hit on by anyone in any country.
im really tall and skinny and my hair is pretty abnormal. I feel like a monster walking in public sometimes.
 
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what country do u live in? do randoms in public approach u alot?
America
what is pheno? i doubt i would get hit on by anyone in any country.
Phenotype, and I'm telling u u'd def get hit on a ton in the states. I'm from california and mulattas def get hit on a lot
im really tall and skinny and my hair is pretty abnormal. I feel like a monster walking in public sometimes.
Ur hair is gorg stop it :bongotap:

I told u prev but we hve the same curl pattern and I always get complements for them :rainbowpls:
 
America

Phenotype, and I'm telling u u'd def get hit on a ton in the states. I'm from california and mulattas def get hit on a lot

Ur hair is gorg stop it :bongotap:

I told u prev but we hve the same curl pattern and I always get complements for them :rainbowpls:
i love America, what candidate are u voting for ?
i like our hair but its very different from what ppl in sweden normally see. My siblings are the only other mulattos ive ever seen irl. My hair sticks out esp when so big and pair that with being super tall and super skinny it may freak ppl out
 
well I'm a guy and a manlet so no lol, but women get approached a lot
ahh i see. What of homeless ppl and methaddicts? i hear you have alot of those in usa. I would love to speak with one as id feel above them in spite of my looks and gain more confidence maybe to practise my social skills and i feel like they wouldnt judge and probably have some interesting stuff to say.

I dont see many druggies and all the homeless i see are immigrants who only speak arabic or some african language, but once when i was sitting at a train station there was one guy. I remember it really well. It was 3 am and it was so cold i was shaking. Then he came up from behind me and started walking on the platform back and fourth. Whenever a train would approach, he would jump down almost standing on the tracks. I thought he was going to kill himself. He would stand extremely close to the train when it was passing, whilst he was clearly very drunk and/or on drugs. My concern for him helped me forget what was troubling me at the moment. Then he walked up to me and said something. Im pretty sure he asked me for either a lighter or a cigarette but i was uncertain and wanted to be 100% sure of what he said as to not mess up our interaction, so i said "what?". He just completely ignored me and continued to edge the suicide until he just left after a while. My interaction failed.
 
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i love America, what candidate are u voting for ?
I'm prob sitting this one out

I supported trump in 16, reluctantly voted for him in 20. He's just disappointed me, he didn't live up to his 2016 campaign promises and has reversed some of his main positions. Don't wanna reward him by voting for him again
i like our hair but its very different from what ppl in sweden normally see. My siblings are the only other mulattos ive ever seen irl. My hair sticks out esp when so big and pair that with being super tall and super skinny it may freak ppl out
that's rough :sadge:

ahh i see. What of homeless ppl and methaddicts? i hear you have alot of those in usa.
We do, mostly in the big cities though. San Fran for example is an utter shithole, and our slimeball governor doesn't do jack to fix it
I would love to speak with one as id feel above them in spite of my looks and gain more confidence maybe to practise my social skills and i feel like they wouldnt judge and probably have some interesting stuff to say.
jfl u wouldn't wanna do that, they're unpredictable
 
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From what I'm reading you two are basically choosing to have no social circle lol
I mean i want to have one but one that I feel comfortable being myself in, doesn't seem possible
 
I'm prob sitting this one out

I supported trump in 16, reluctantly voted for him in 20. He's just disappointed me, he didn't live up to his 2016 campaign promises and has reversed some of his main positions. Don't wanna reward him by voting for him again

that's rough :sadge:


We do, mostly in the big cities though. San Fran for example is an utter shithole, and our slimeball governor doesn't do jack to fix it

jfl u wouldn't wanna do that, they're unpredictable
awesome sause
 
He complies only girls that want him are chubby and emo girls. I tell him when I go to a club I'm invisible, ignored, unseen, by ALL women. So he's a volcel
Incel community doesn't take the involuntary celibate definition literally
 

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