i have never called him any names, what he considers arguing is me asking him to not be a shitty person, when we first got together je told me to drop all my friends bc none of them were real i did it he wanted me to cut his name onto my leg i did it he wanted my passwords i gave them and then he just shifted and just pickef at everything i did before we were even tg starting arguments with me calling me a cunt a whore telling me i should kill myself, his idea of me starting an argument with him is me saying he doesnt have to lie to me and i prefer the truth (when i catch uim in a lie) i was calm when i told him i knew he cheated ive been nothing but calm