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also don’t spam him try to stay on no contact honestly until he reaches out first
 
iluvmyboyfriend123 said:
ok so i dont need any positivity i just need answers, i cant change my username but my bf said were on a break but staying friends how do i change in everyway possible to win him back,
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caring abt such things is futile
 
Im sorry but it’s probably over
any advice given on your looks is not going to change u so much in a short time for him to rethink this
If he wants to go back he will,
Losing a few pimples or Debloating is not gonna change his mind jfl
 
Starlet said:
also don’t spam him try to stay on no contact honestly until he reaches out first
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he does be texting me i just kinda reply and loke be polite and i like posted a tiktok half aimed at him he went texting me and i just said loke i dont wanna argue i just want u to realise how horrible youve been to me etc like i dont text him unless he texts me
 
Balian said:
Im sorry but it’s probably over
any advice given on your looks is not going to change u so much in a short time for him to rethink this
If he wants to go back he will,
Losing a few pimples or Debloating is not gonna change his mind jfl
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what will help him realise he has someone who cares abt him more then anything 🥲
 
iluvmyboyfriend123 said:
what will help him realise he has someone who cares abt him more then anything 🥲
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honestly I kinda think that if you just go no contact and he doesn’t realize it after some of doing that of how he misses you then I don’t know if he ever will. Don’t give him that bs friend shit
 
iluvmyboyfriend123 said:
what will help him realise he has someone who cares abt him more then anything 🥲
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Probably nothing for now
Doesn’t work like that, there’s some transactionality even to the purest and healthiest forms of love/relationship
If he doesn’t get back
focus on forgetting
 
iluvmyboyfriend123 said:
he does be texting me i just kinda reply and loke be polite and i like posted a tiktok half aimed at him he went texting me and i just said loke i dont wanna argue i just want u to realise how horrible youve been to me etc like i dont text him unless he texts me
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what does he say?
 
Starlet said:
what does he say?
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like telling me stuff that happened or talking abt his little side hustle,and he asked abt my vacation .on thursday i did talk first and i was just like if u dont wanna be together ever again like thats fine u dony have to continue to be a liar then wr kinda left the conversation on saturday night texts me abt this tt i made saying why are u acting like i hate u and we cant talk (i never even mentioned him in it) and i was just like u dont even have to pretend u care bc thursday je kept saying were not tg anyways, he said “i do care i just wanted a break” and i was just like im giving u ur break etc then he just was ignoring me while online all i said was see ur just proving we cant talk bc u just ignore me but im not even texting him much usually i send paragraphs and say loads now om just replying but hoping he comes back l o l
 
Balian said:
Probably nothing for now
Doesn’t work like that, there’s some transactionality even to the purest and healthiest forms of love/relationship
If he doesn’t get back
focus on forgetting
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i never even expected anything off of him (loyalty shoulf have been a given) and ik people have problems i did nothing but support him when he wasnt shutting me out like maybe not to lie about stuff and just say how it is and i wouldng get mad thats all i expected
 
iluvmyboyfriend123 said:
like telling me stuff that happened or talking abt his little side hustle,and he asked abt my vacation .on thursday i did talk first and i was just like if u dont wanna be together ever again like thats fine u dony have to continue to be a liar then wr kinda left the conversation on saturday night texts me abt this tt i made saying why are u acting like i hate u and we cant talk (i never even mentioned him in it) and i was just like u dont even have to pretend u care bc thursday je kept saying were not tg anyways, he said “i do care i just wanted a break” and i was just like im giving u ur break etc then he just was ignoring me while online all i said was see ur just proving we cant talk bc u just ignore me but im not even texting him much usually i send paragraphs and say loads now om just replying but hoping he comes back l o l
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did he give you a reason for wanting a break? It seems like a red flag if he won’t talk to you about it. but it’s good you’re not saying too much. Some guys get off on and take pleasure in how much they’ve hurt you so don’t give them that satisfaction
 
Starlet said:
did he give you a reason for wanting a break? It seems like a red flag if he won’t talk to you about it. but it’s good you’re not saying too much. Some guys get off on and take pleasure in how much they’ve hurt you so don’t give them that satisfaction
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he said there was sm tension between us bc “all we did was argue “ and he just didn’t wanna be with anyone for a month or two but when he said that i said like the only reason there was tension was bc he never talked to me and the only way i really feel understood is when i argue and ik thats a me problem i said it to him sm times
 
iluvmyboyfriend123 said:
he said there was sm tension between us bc “all we did was argue “ and he just didn’t wanna be with anyone for a month or two but when he said that i said like the only reason there was tension was bc he never talked to me and the only way i really feel understood is when i argue and ik thats a me problem i said it to him sm times
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so in this “break” he intends to not see other girls and get back with you? Do you think maybe you’re just too clingy or how long does he go without talking to you? And how do you guys argue, like do you start calling him names?
 
Starlet said:
so in this “break” he intends to not see other girls and get back with you? Do you think maybe you’re just too clingy or how long does he go without talking to you? And how do you guys argue, like do you start calling him names?
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i have never called him any names, what he considers arguing is me asking him to not be a shitty person, when we first got together je told me to drop all my friends bc none of them were real i did it he wanted me to cut his name onto my leg i did it he wanted my passwords i gave them and then he just shifted and just pickef at everything i did before we were even tg starting arguments with me calling me a cunt a whore telling me i should kill myself, his idea of me starting an argument with him is me saying he doesnt have to lie to me and i prefer the truth (when i catch uim in a lie) i was calm when i told him i knew he cheated ive been nothing but calm
 
Starlet said:
so in this “break” he intends to not see other girls and get back with you? Do you think maybe you’re just too clingy or how long does he go without talking to you? And how do you guys argue, like do you start calling him names?
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he claims he wont idk im not talking to anyone else i just feel like im geeking out over this and i dont hwve any friends to talk to lol
 
iluvmyboyfriend123 said:
i have never called him any names, what he considers arguing is me asking him to not be a shitty person, when we first got together je told me to drop all my friends bc none of them were real i did it he wanted me to cut his name onto my leg i did it he wanted my passwords i gave them and then he just shifted and just pickef at everything i did before we were even tg starting arguments with me calling me a cunt a whore telling me i should kill myself, his idea of me starting an argument with him is me saying he doesnt have to lie to me and i prefer the truth (when i catch uim in a lie) i was calm when i told him i knew he cheated ive been nothing but calm
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please girl you’re so pretty and he sounds so shit and abusive, you can do better 💔
 
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