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ive had men swipe up on my instagram story to ask about a friend instead of me and it made me realize ive literally never had a friend tell me they know someone interested in me. or like shown me a screenshot of someone asking about me from their posts. its always the other way around. just in general observing how my friends are cold approached irl or cold dmd on instagram. it really makes me think a lot. ive never been cold approached irl before. ive been dmd before but its so infrequent i could count how many times in my life on one hand and its always some random its never someone id possibly know irl. i can go months without any sort of male attention.