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[MrdrCake]

I’ve noticed something

I’m under the belief that while looks play a major part in your life, I think Incel’s are using their looks as possibly the biggest cope of all

“No one likes me! Grrrr.. It must be my looks!”


NEWSFLASH
It’s not

I could lose count of the amount of extremely liked guys in my school who would all be rated 5 and sub 5

Looks do matter!
But they only really mainly matter in the sexual market
And while good-looking people are instinctually treated better by others, one’s personality can more than make up for that

If looks were all that mattered in social situations 99% of all humans would be jobless and in the exact same situation as most incels
But they’re not

Because they act and think like respectable humans

If you want to physically ascend then go for it, join the club
But if you also want to be genuinely liked you must look inward and ask yourself if maybe your looks aren’t the only problems here

This isn’t a diss on Incels, I understand that a lot are on the spectrum and find it hard to socialize like normal, but autism doesn’t stop you from being genuinely kind to others and unobjetifying to women

That all being said, looks can help tremendously in your life, especially the better looking you are, but that in no way means it’s all that matters

 

[sigma]

bro exactly, so many rude sped girls who are pretty think that they need to be treated better bc looks should halo you
would never date a stupid girl with shallow personality

 

[MrdrCake]

bro exactly, so many rude sped girls who are pretty think that they need to be treated better bc looks should halo you
would never date a stupid girl with shallow personality

Literally

My sister will continually preach that a guy can be not that good looking but if he’s got a good personality, the more she gets to know him the more she ends up being into him

 

[Whitepill]

Ok let me refute this take tbh. . Looks are part of the problem and people are more likely to be ostracized if they are ugly. The social hierarchy and looks hierarchy can be semi intertwined

 

[MrdrCake]

Ok let me refute this take tbh. . Looks are part of the problem and people are more likely to be ostracized if they are ugly. The social hierarchy and looks hierarchy can be semi intertwined

But life isn’t a movie though, looks are important in social situations, but they’re not the nail in the coffin for how people view you, sure girls may not want to f**k you’re as much as Tyler, the 6’2 chad with a spade for a jawline, but I’ve seen first hand the guys that are funny and confident, are liked regardless of looks

And that being said those guys usually end up getting girlfriends eventually, and while it wasn’t as easy for them as it was for other better looking guys nonetheless being a decent person was what ended up getting them female recognition

Listen, it’s rough out there for guys who are sub 5s, but it’s even rougher for the sub 5s who use their looks as an excuse to be antisocial and prickly about life

That’s all I’m saying, looks do matter but that’s no excuse to be completely incompetent socially, which is I will admit the common denominator among incels

 

[Whitepill]

But life isn’t a movie though, looks are important in social situations, but they’re not the nail in the coffin for how people view you, sure girls may not want to f**k you’re as much as Tyler, the 6’2 chad with a spade for a jawline, but I’ve seen first hand the guys that are funny and confident, are liked regardless of looks

And that being said those guys usually end up getting girlfriends eventually, and while it wasn’t as easy for them as it was for other better looking guys nonetheless being a decent person was what ended up getting them female recognition

Listen, it’s rough out there for guys who are sub 5s, but it’s even rougher for the sub 5s who use their looks as an excuse to be antisocial and prickly about life

That’s all I’m saying, looks do matter but that’s no excuse to be completely incompetent socially, which is I will admit the common denominator among incels

ok thats a fair response ngl

 

[Looksmaxlossus]

“No one likes me! Grrrr.. It must be my looks!”
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>uses a bad looking dude as an example

 

[MrdrCake]

>uses a bad looking dude as an example

That’s what I’m saying tho, yeah he’s bad looking but maybe if he didn’t use his looks like an excuse to be angry at the world he could have a genuine social life

 

[imog.incels]

Ok let me refute this take tbh. . Looks are part of the problem and people are more likely to be ostracized if they are ugly. The social hierarchy and looks hierarchy can be semi intertwined

youre ill

 

[AstroSky]

Bro you can be good looking but be sucu a mental cel that you repel women becuase they think your mental illness is genetic.( some are) so it's a legit concern for women to avoid. Looks won't halo you out of some things in life. You adapt to it and improve it or never breed. That's a choice. If you never plan on having babies. None of this matters

 

[Whitepill]

youre ill

Cope. This is the reality for some people

 

[Whitepill]

Nice job just insulting me instead of disagreeing btw

 

[imog.incels]

then theyre losers

 

[Whitepill]

So you are a loser?

 

[gymcel88.]

I’ve noticed something

I’m under the belief that while looks play a major part in your life, I think Incel’s are using their looks as possibly the biggest cope of all

“No one likes me! Grrrr.. It must be my looks!”
View attachment 29471

NEWSFLASH
It’s not

I could lose count of the amount of extremely liked guys in my school who would all be rated 5 and sub 5

Looks do matter!
But they only really mainly matter in the sexual market
And while good-looking people are instinctually treated better by others, one’s personality can more than make up for that

If looks were all that mattered in social situations 99% of all humans would be jobless and in the exact same situation as most incels
But they’re not

Because they act and think like respectable humans

If you want to physically ascend then go for it, join the club
But if you also want to be genuinely liked you must look inward and ask yourself if maybe your looks aren’t the only problems here

This isn’t a diss on Incels, I understand that a lot are on the spectrum and find it hard to socialize like normal, but autism doesn’t stop you from being genuinely kind to others and unobjetifying to women

That all being said, looks can help tremendously in your life, especially the better looking you are, but that in no way means it’s all that matters

Agreed
Looks are just first impressions/ how people will treat you if they dont know you
personality = making friends and forming meaningful connections

 

[tami_26]

I’ve noticed something

I’m under the belief that while looks play a major part in your life, I think Incel’s are using their looks as possibly the biggest cope of all

“No one likes me! Grrrr.. It must be my looks!”
View attachment 29471

NEWSFLASH
It’s not

I could lose count of the amount of extremely liked guys in my school who would all be rated 5 and sub 5

Looks do matter!
But they only really mainly matter in the sexual market
And while good-looking people are instinctually treated better by others, one’s personality can more than make up for that

If looks were all that mattered in social situations 99% of all humans would be jobless and in the exact same situation as most incels
But they’re not

Because they act and think like respectable humans

If you want to physically ascend then go for it, join the club
But if you also want to be genuinely liked you must look inward and ask yourself if maybe your looks aren’t the only problems here

This isn’t a diss on Incels, I understand that a lot are on the spectrum and find it hard to socialize like normal, but autism doesn’t stop you from being genuinely kind to others and unobjetifying to women

That all being said, looks can help tremendously in your life, especially the better looking you are, but that in no way means it’s all that matters

facts i can remember the study but if you spend time in someone's presence and enjoy it often then you will see them more and more attractive