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i fucking hate how people act like talking is some sacred human necessity
communication is massively overrated and most of it is just pointless yapping, fake smalltalk, social scripts and people filling silence because they cant handle sitting there without making noise
“how are you”
“what did you do today”
“what are your plans”
“how does that make you feel”
HOLY FUCK JUST GET TO THE POINT
half these conversations feel completely fucking meaningless. nobody actually wants some deep answer, they just want the standard NPC response so they can keep the interaction going. then somehow being able to yap nonstop is treated as charisma or social intelligence
and the worst part is people constantly TALK about doing shit instead of actually doing it
“we need to lock in”
“we should start gym”
“we need to make money”
“i need to fix my life”
“we should work on ourselves”
THEN FUCKING DO IT
why are you announcing your intentions like youre expecting a medal? talking about an action isnt the fucking action. results dont come from sitting around discussing how youre going to get results.
actions > words
i also hate how people refuse to just say what they mean. everything has to be some stupid fucking social minigame where youre expected to decode tone, hints, facial expressions, body language and hidden meanings.
JUST SAY WHAT YOU WANT
if theres a problem then say it. if you dont like something then say it. if you want something then fucking ask. why do i have to reverse engineer your entire personality from one sentence?
people also act like every fucking feeling needs to be verbalized immediately. sometimes youre annoyed and it passes. sometimes youre overwhelmed and need silence. sometimes you genuinely dont have anything to say. apparently thats unacceptable because everyone needs to constantly “communicate.”
NO.
and communication doesnt even guarantee understanding. people constantly misunderstand each other, argue over wording, interpret shit differently and then spend even MORE time talking because the original talking caused another problem.
so now youre stuck in a fucking infinite yapping loop.
talk
misunderstand
explain
re-explain
argue
apologize
clarify
repeat
just fucking kill the conversation already
i'd genuinely rather see someone show me what they mean than hear a 30 minute speech about it. if you care, fucking act like it. if you want to change something, change it. if you want to improve, improve. if you want something done, do it.
people love talking because talking is easy. doing shit is harder. talking lets you feel productive without actually risking failure.
stop announcing every goal
stop explaining every decision
stop seeking reassurance
stop narrating your fucking life
JUST DO THE THING
say what needs to be said, do what needs to be done, and shut the fuck up.
communication is massively overrated and most of it is just pointless yapping, fake smalltalk, social scripts and people filling silence because they cant handle sitting there without making noise
“how are you”
“what did you do today”
“what are your plans”
“how does that make you feel”
HOLY FUCK JUST GET TO THE POINT
half these conversations feel completely fucking meaningless. nobody actually wants some deep answer, they just want the standard NPC response so they can keep the interaction going. then somehow being able to yap nonstop is treated as charisma or social intelligence
and the worst part is people constantly TALK about doing shit instead of actually doing it
“we need to lock in”
“we should start gym”
“we need to make money”
“i need to fix my life”
“we should work on ourselves”
THEN FUCKING DO IT
why are you announcing your intentions like youre expecting a medal? talking about an action isnt the fucking action. results dont come from sitting around discussing how youre going to get results.
actions > words
i also hate how people refuse to just say what they mean. everything has to be some stupid fucking social minigame where youre expected to decode tone, hints, facial expressions, body language and hidden meanings.
JUST SAY WHAT YOU WANT
if theres a problem then say it. if you dont like something then say it. if you want something then fucking ask. why do i have to reverse engineer your entire personality from one sentence?
people also act like every fucking feeling needs to be verbalized immediately. sometimes youre annoyed and it passes. sometimes youre overwhelmed and need silence. sometimes you genuinely dont have anything to say. apparently thats unacceptable because everyone needs to constantly “communicate.”
NO.
and communication doesnt even guarantee understanding. people constantly misunderstand each other, argue over wording, interpret shit differently and then spend even MORE time talking because the original talking caused another problem.
so now youre stuck in a fucking infinite yapping loop.
talk
misunderstand
explain
re-explain
argue
apologize
clarify
repeat
just fucking kill the conversation already
i'd genuinely rather see someone show me what they mean than hear a 30 minute speech about it. if you care, fucking act like it. if you want to change something, change it. if you want to improve, improve. if you want something done, do it.
people love talking because talking is easy. doing shit is harder. talking lets you feel productive without actually risking failure.
stop announcing every goal
stop explaining every decision
stop seeking reassurance
stop narrating your fucking life
JUST DO THE THING
say what needs to be said, do what needs to be done, and shut the fuck up.
there's actually a story my mom always tells me regarding this. She said in my first ever day of school my teacher said "guten tag" to me when I walked into the classroom and I said "werden wir ja noch sehen" and walked on 
that expression wasn't used much at home to greet people so I didn't really get it until later in the school year when I was forced to have a conversation about it with a confused teacher