Why do I keep info dumping in conservation IRL and Online

[MelaninWarlord]

It makes the other person bored or impatient or confused or disinterested

I know it should be about two way street and feelings and all that small talk thing.
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[knightmaxxer]

no no thats based

 

[splanky]

It makes the other person bored or impatient or confused or disinterested

I know it should be about two way street and feelings and all that small talk thing.
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same and i don’t know what to do

 

[arya]

It makes the other person bored or impatient or confused or disinterested

I know it should be about two way street and feelings and all that small talk thing.
..

small talks are boring, no need to engage i like to know more about people

 

[Nenestar]

small talks are boring, no need to engage i like to know more about people

small talk with relatives is torture

 

[arya]

small talk with relatives is torture

i dont even properly reply in that i just say yeah or nod and leave

 

[Nenestar]

i dont even properly reply in that i just say yeah or nod and leave

same, I'm the most quietest person in my whole bloodline

 

[arya]

same, I'm the most quietest person in my whole bloodline

same lol they always say that even teachers say it

 

[Nenestar]

same lol they always say that even teachers say it

same lol. my teachers were constantly telling me to be active on the class and such. My parents used to as well, but I think they understand that nothing is gonna change, it's just shit genes

 

[arya]

same lol. my teachers were constantly telling me to be active on the class and such. My parents used to as well, but I think they understand that nothing is gonna change, it's just shit genes

same probably my dad was really quiet too, every teacher tells me im very inactive (or ask if im upset over something) i cant even speak in groups

 

[MelaninWarlord]

ery teacher tells me im very inactive (or ask if im upset over something) i c

same and i don’t know what to do

small talks are boring, no need to engage i like to know more about people

yeah but NTs value it esp at cafes and other normie places ... clubs and the like

 

[MelaninWarlord]

same lol. my teachers were constantly telling me to be active on the class and such. My parents used to as well, but I think they understand that nothing is gonna change, it's just shit genes

i recently got a book on body language its called what every body is aying by joe navarro An ex fbi guide to speed reading people

 

[MelaninWarlord]

i dont even properly reply in that i just say yeah or nod and leave

i also got a book called adult children of emotionally immature parents