Method WHY PERSONALITYMAXXING IS IMPORTANT

[sigma]

PERSONALITY​

One of the most underestimated and underemphasized aspects of developing yourself as a person and improving the way others perceive you. This thread will be about why it is important and how to improve it. DISCLAIMER: This may be a little biased, and you are free to disagree. All sources will be at the bottom.

Why it's Neglected​

There are many reasons why people put high emphasis on attractiveness while severely neglecting their behavior. "Incels," according to Google, are people who believe they are unable to find a partner, usually due to being perceived as ugly and/or destitute/poor personality. However, these are obviously just excuses for people who give up. Additionally, people will try and court someone and get rejected solely based on their appearance, and not their personality and bond formed with that person. Being insulted can affect your esteem too. Due to this many people turn to pouring all of their efforts into looking good. But what are you without character? Have you reduced yourself to a doll? This is why I believe that both personality AND looks are important players in success. if you have a good personality, you will likely strive for success. If you have good looks, you have better confidence, and thus a better personality (generally). These 2 are clearly interdependent.
Also, you can form more genuine relationships with others. Without it, people are more likely to use you for your success, whether it be money, status, intelligence, power, or beauty. Of course, you can still be manipulated, but if you set clear boundaries and also focus on inner work for yourself, you will be able to realize who is using you and who cares for you.

How Personality Can Affect Appearance, Vice Versa​

Many studies have found that positive traits can be linked to better perceptions of physical beauty, while negative traits are associated with poorer perceptions. In fact, in a study, people found that one good trait causes people to translate into another one. For example, if a girl is nice to you, you will subconsciously assume that she is an honest and patient person, without any proof. Things like beauty can also be incorporated into this, going both ways, with beauty influencing how people see your personality, and your personality influencing how people feel about your looks. Plus, if you are attractive, people will now expect more from your personality since they assume that you will be a certain way, so it will be helpful to not mess up this impression that they have of you.


Keep in mind that you do not have to be a very specific way; there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to personality. Societal, cultural, familial norms and personal goals vary, thus affecting the way you will turn out to be. Also, you don't have to entirely change, stop being funny or be crude. You can still retain the real you. But first, you have to know who really is the real you, not the one influenced by social media, etc. I would recommend cutting off social media (you don't have to do it entirely), meditation, self-care, watching videos on how to improve social skills, improving wardrobe, reading, learning, and more. Go outside more and see how real people interact in the world, not only online. Experiment and try to have fun.
Fixing your personality may be harder than actual looks. If you want to change your appearance, you can just go to a store and buy skincare products. Unfortunately, there is no product to treat a shitty personality. It is an internal struggle, not a modifiable physical trait. However, it is very much doable and important.


My Own Experiences
Alright quick story time. I've met many beautiful girls and guys. When I first see them, I do somewhat feel more drawn towards them (in a mostly non-sexual way lol), and I want to talk to them. However, sometimes, they will have rotten personalities. I've noticed that weeks of them being rude and in general not nice has made me more repulsed by them, and now they just look average and irrelevant to me physically and personally. So yeah. Obviously, my own experience doesn't prove this, but for me, it is definitely a real thing that I can testify to.

Tips to Improve​

1. Get a hobby
Actually have something going on in your life (preferably a hobby that does not involve being online all the time). This way, you can maybe go out, possibly socialize, and additionally have something to talk about when you are having a conversation. Without hobbies, you are a generic, boring person who is hella average. It can be anything from a sport to chess.
2. Learn manners
If you learn proper etiquette and manners, you can impress others (including family and elders), as well as not seem like a slob.
3. Practice speaking
Some people have trouble communicating, especially in real life. Practicing phrases to use in a conversation can make the convo more interesting. You can also learn skills that can help you become a great speaker and listener. You can practice with family members, friends, your pets, or even a mirror. Sure, it'll be awkward, but it'll be worth it in the long run. Remember, no pain, no gain.
4. Have open body language
If you always seem closed off and unconfident, people will be less likely to approach you. Some common avoidant cues include: slouching shoulders, head-down, always on your phone, constantly listening to music, poor eye contact, short replies, and more.
5. Prioritize friends
Have clear boundaries, and don't befriend people whom you don't genuinely care for, and they don't care for you. See who has helped you the most, who has been the closest, and been there for you. These are the people you should keep. If you have to message someone first to talk to them, or they avoid you, etc., then it's time to let go. Having fewer friends can also help you focus your resources and energy elsewhere.
6. Take risks
You won't get anywhere without taking risks. Sure, it might be awkward to approach someone on the first day of school or work, and it might end badly, but who knows? That person could help you, and even become a lifelong friend. Try things out, like a new restaurant. Now you are more open-minded to new experiences, and you have more to talk about. Your life will become significantly more interesting. This also doesn't have to only apply to social situations.
7. Change your mindset
Don't expect good things to come to you. Work hard for them. Develop discipline, and try. Don't give up, you've got this.

Good luck to all of you. I hope that you may ascend and your life will be better.

Sources:
There are more sources that you can readily find online, these are just the basics. If you search it up, you will find the sources, and/or sites that will link sources in their articles.

Incel | Definition, History, & Facts | Britannica

Incel, member of an online subculture of primarily heterosexual men who identify as being unable to have romantic or sexual relationships. This self-described inability to form attachments is often expressed as grievance toward women. Incel subculture has been associated with misogyny, extremism,

www.britannica.com

The Effects of Attractiveness and Status on Personality Evaluation - PMC

Research on personality has shown that perceiving a person as attractive fosters positive expectations about his/her personal characteristics. Literature has also demonstrated a significant link between personality traits and occupational ...

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Good conduct makes your face attractive: The effect of personality perception on facial attractiveness judgments - PMC

Human facial attractiveness is related to physical features, such as clear complexion and symmetry. However, it is also known that facial attractiveness judgments are influenced by a wide range of non-physical factors. Here, we examined the effect ...

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

The Importance of Personality Development-Lexicon MILE Blogs

This blog contains information about the importance of personality development.

www.lexiconmile.com

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Thanks for reading lol. I'll try to reply to everyone's comments .

 

[Hunteryeron]

PERSONALITY​

One of the most underestimated and underemphasized aspects of developing yourself as a person and improving the way others perceive you. This thread will be about why it is important and how to improve it. DISCLAIMER: This may be a little biased, and you are free to disagree. All sources will be at the bottom.

Why it's Neglected​

There are many reasons why people put high emphasis on attractiveness while severely neglecting their behavior. "Incels," according to Google, are people who View attachment 26898believe they are unable to find a partner, usually due to being perceived as ugly and/or destitute/poor personality. However, these are obviously just excuses for people who give up. Additionally, people will try and court someone and get rejected solely based on their appearance, and not their personality and bond formed with that person. Being insulted can affect your esteem too. Due to this many people turn to pouring all of their efforts into looking good. But what are you without character? Have you reduced yourself to a doll? This is why I believe that both personality AND looks are important players in success. if you have a good personality, you will likely strive for success. If you have good looks, you have better confidence, and thus a better personality (generally). These 2 are clearly interdependent.
Also, you can form more genuine relationships with others. Without it, people are more likely to use you for your success, whether it be money, status, intelligence, power, or beauty. Of course, you can still be manipulated, but if you set clear boundaries and also focus on inner work for yourself, you will be able to realize who is using you and who cares for you.

How Personality Can Affect Appearance, Vice Versa​

Many studies have found that positive traits can be linked to better perceptions of physical beauty, while negative traits are associated with poorer perceptions. In fact, in a study, people found that one good trait causes people to translate into another one. For example, if a girl is nice to you, you will subconsciously assume that she is an honest and patient person, without any proof. Things like beauty can also be incorporated into this, going both ways, with beauty influencing how people see your personality, and your personality influencing how people feel about your looks. Plus, if you are attractive, people will now expect more from your personality since they assume that you will be a certain way, so it will be helpful to not mess up this impression that they have of you.


View attachment 26899Keep in mind that you do not have to be a very specific way; there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to personality. Societal, cultural, familial norms and personal goals vary, thus affecting the way you will turn out to be. Also, you don't have to entirely change, stop being funny or be crude. You can still retain the real you. But first, you have to know who really is the real you, not the one influenced by social media, etc. I would recommend cutting off social media (you don't have to do it entirely), meditation, self-care, watching videos on how to improve social skills, improving wardrobe, reading, learning, and more. Go outside more and see how real people interact in the world, not only online. Experiment and try to have fun.
Fixing your personality may be harder than actual looks. If you want to change your appearance, you can just go to a store and buy skincare products. Unfortunately, there is no product to treat a shitty personality. It is an internal struggle, not a modifiable physical trait. However, it is very much doable and important.


My Own Experiences
Alright quick story time. I've met many beautiful girls and guys. When I first see them, I do somewhat feel more drawn towards them (in a mostly non-sexual way lol), and I want to talk to them. However, sometimes, they will have rotten personalities. I've noticed that weeks of them being rude and in general not nice has made me more repulsed by them, and now they just look average and irrelevant to me physically and personally. So yeah. Obviously, my own experience doesn't prove this, but for me, it is definitely a real thing that I can testify to.

Tips to Improve​

View attachment 26900
1. Get a hobby
Actually have something going on in your life (preferably a hobby that does not involve being online all the time). This way, you can maybe go out, possibly socialize, and additionally have something to talk about when you are having a conversation. Without hobbies, you are a generic, boring person who is hella average. It can be anything from a sport to chess.
2. Learn manners
If you learn proper etiquette and manners, you can impress others (including family and elders), as well as not seem like a slob.
3. Practice speaking
Some people have trouble communicating, especially in real life. Practicing phrases to use in a conversation can make the convo more interesting. You can also learn skills that can help you become a great speaker and listener. You can practice with family members, friends, your pets, or even a mirror. Sure, it'll be awkward, but it'll be worth it in the long run. Remember, no pain, no gain.
4. Have open body language
If you always seem closed off and unconfident, people will be less likely to approach you. Some common avoidant cues include: slouching shoulders, head-down, always on your phone, constantly listening to music, poor eye contact, short replies, and more.
5. Prioritize friends
Have clear boundaries, and don't befriend people whom you don't genuinely care for, and they don't care for you. See who has helped you the most, who has been the closest, and been there for you. These are the people you should keep. If you have to message someone first to talk to them, or they avoid you, etc., then it's time to let go. Having fewer friends can also help you focus your resources and energy elsewhere.
6. Take risks
You won't get anywhere without taking risks. Sure, it might be awkward to approach someone on the first day of school or work, and it might end badly, but who knows? That person could help you, and even become a lifelong friend. Try things out, like a new restaurant. Now you are more open-minded to new experiences, and you have more to talk about. Your life will become significantly more interesting. This also doesn't have to only apply to social situations.
7. Change your mindset
Don't expect good things to come to you. Work hard for them. Develop discipline, and try. Don't give up, you've got this.

Good luck to all of you. I hope that you may ascend and your life will be better.

Sources:
There are more sources that you can readily find online, these are just the basics. If you search it up, you will find the sources, and/or sites that will link sources in their articles.

Incel | Definition, History, & Facts | Britannica

Incel, member of an online subculture of primarily heterosexual men who identify as being unable to have romantic or sexual relationships. This self-described inability to form attachments is often expressed as grievance toward women. Incel subculture has been associated with misogyny, extremism,

www.britannica.com

The Effects of Attractiveness and Status on Personality Evaluation - PMC

Research on personality has shown that perceiving a person as attractive fosters positive expectations about his/her personal characteristics. Literature has also demonstrated a significant link between personality traits and occupational ...

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Good conduct makes your face attractive: The effect of personality perception on facial attractiveness judgments - PMC

Human facial attractiveness is related to physical features, such as clear complexion and symmetry. However, it is also known that facial attractiveness judgments are influenced by a wide range of non-physical factors. Here, we examined the effect ...

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

The Importance of Personality Development-Lexicon MILE Blogs

This blog contains information about the importance of personality development.

www.lexiconmile.com

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I made this thread because someone told me to. I spent like 2 hours on this lol. I'll try to reply to everyone's comments .

@Nihilus I just realized could this be MUST READ worthy?

hAHAHAHAH. If you look good enough you can be an insuffrable autist.

 

[sigma]

hAHAHAHAH. If you look good enough you can be an insuffrable autist.

lmao yeah ig sometimes you can get away with it. but still, you can personalitymax for yourself too. it doesn't have to necessarily be for others.

 

[Jelqmaxing]

hAHAHAHAH. If you look good enough you can be an insuffrable autist.

 

[Nihilus]

Well well well
Personality matter but it's like the forth or fifth thing in priority
Your looks alter your personality
Nevertheless good thread @pslgodduckz @sexlesstosexles check this

 

[pslgodduckz]

dnr

 

[4lt]

Nice one bro, no one can get a wife if ur a dick & annoying

 

[Hunteryeron]

Nice one bro, no one can get a wife if ur a dick & annoying

View attachment 26901

You forgot my bbc

 

[sexlesstosexles]

Well well well
Personality matter but it's like the forth or fifth thing in priority
Your looks alter your personality
Nevertheless good thread @pslgodduckz @sexlesstosexles check this

This is neither true nor false. In actuality it is a chart with 2 data curves with an intersection point.

An example of a chart like this even though this is just a random chart not the actual data:


In plain english what this means is if you look ugly then you will have to have to try really harder with your personality to suceed at life. But if you look good then personality is not as important in order to not get rejected.

Then there is also another facet to this: That what males are taught to have as personality (beta male traits) makes them incels. This is because school is a form of slavery. Of course being an "alpha male" doesn't automatically make someone not get rejected either.

 

[Nihilus]

This is neither true nor false. In actuality it is a chart with 2 data curves with an intersection point.

An example of a chart like this even though this is just a random chart not the actual data:
View attachment 26906

In plain english what this means is if you look ugly then you will have to have to try really harder with your personality to suceed at life. But if you look good then personality is not as important in order to not get rejected.

Then there is also another facet to this: That what males are taught to have as personality (beta male traits) makes them incels. This is because school is a form of slavery. Of course being an "alpha male" doesn't automatically make someone not get rejected either.

high iq

 

[sigma]

Well well well
Personality matter but it's like the forth or fifth thing in priority
Your looks alter your personality
Nevertheless good thread @pslgodduckz @sexlesstosexles check this

true, looks alter personality, you will become more disciplined and confident by improving your appearance

 

[Donsa]

Bros name is sigma and he has a christian bale pfp ban him please

 

[Nihilus]

Bros name is sigma and he has a christian bale pfp ban him please

ure back broski

 

[Donsa]

ure back broski

came back to take a look

 

[Donsa]

ure back broski

why so many ppl talking about personality lol

 

[Nihilus]

why so many ppl talking about personality lol

normies

 

[Donsa]

normies

ong

 

[Donsa]

personality=looks+style

 

[LeoMaxxer96]

Still don't know what "personality" means?

 

[acneic subhuman]

PERSONALITY​

One of the most underestimated and underemphasized aspects of developing yourself as a person and improving the way others perceive you. This thread will be about why it is important and how to improve it. DISCLAIMER: This may be a little biased, and you are free to disagree. All sources will be at the bottom.

Why it's Neglected​

There are many reasons why people put high emphasis on attractiveness while severely neglecting their behavior. "Incels," according to Google, are people who View attachment 26898believe they are unable to find a partner, usually due to being perceived as ugly and/or destitute/poor personality. However, these are obviously just excuses for people who give up. Additionally, people will try and court someone and get rejected solely based on their appearance, and not their personality and bond formed with that person. Being insulted can affect your esteem too. Due to this many people turn to pouring all of their efforts into looking good. But what are you without character? Have you reduced yourself to a doll? This is why I believe that both personality AND looks are important players in success. if you have a good personality, you will likely strive for success. If you have good looks, you have better confidence, and thus a better personality (generally). These 2 are clearly interdependent.
Also, you can form more genuine relationships with others. Without it, people are more likely to use you for your success, whether it be money, status, intelligence, power, or beauty. Of course, you can still be manipulated, but if you set clear boundaries and also focus on inner work for yourself, you will be able to realize who is using you and who cares for you.

How Personality Can Affect Appearance, Vice Versa​

Many studies have found that positive traits can be linked to better perceptions of physical beauty, while negative traits are associated with poorer perceptions. In fact, in a study, people found that one good trait causes people to translate into another one. For example, if a girl is nice to you, you will subconsciously assume that she is an honest and patient person, without any proof. Things like beauty can also be incorporated into this, going both ways, with beauty influencing how people see your personality, and your personality influencing how people feel about your looks. Plus, if you are attractive, people will now expect more from your personality since they assume that you will be a certain way, so it will be helpful to not mess up this impression that they have of you.


View attachment 26899Keep in mind that you do not have to be a very specific way; there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to personality. Societal, cultural, familial norms and personal goals vary, thus affecting the way you will turn out to be. Also, you don't have to entirely change, stop being funny or be crude. You can still retain the real you. But first, you have to know who really is the real you, not the one influenced by social media, etc. I would recommend cutting off social media (you don't have to do it entirely), meditation, self-care, watching videos on how to improve social skills, improving wardrobe, reading, learning, and more. Go outside more and see how real people interact in the world, not only online. Experiment and try to have fun.
Fixing your personality may be harder than actual looks. If you want to change your appearance, you can just go to a store and buy skincare products. Unfortunately, there is no product to treat a shitty personality. It is an internal struggle, not a modifiable physical trait. However, it is very much doable and important.


My Own Experiences
Alright quick story time. I've met many beautiful girls and guys. When I first see them, I do somewhat feel more drawn towards them (in a mostly non-sexual way lol), and I want to talk to them. However, sometimes, they will have rotten personalities. I've noticed that weeks of them being rude and in general not nice has made me more repulsed by them, and now they just look average and irrelevant to me physically and personally. So yeah. Obviously, my own experience doesn't prove this, but for me, it is definitely a real thing that I can testify to.

Tips to Improve​

View attachment 26900
1. Get a hobby
Actually have something going on in your life (preferably a hobby that does not involve being online all the time). This way, you can maybe go out, possibly socialize, and additionally have something to talk about when you are having a conversation. Without hobbies, you are a generic, boring person who is hella average. It can be anything from a sport to chess.
2. Learn manners
If you learn proper etiquette and manners, you can impress others (including family and elders), as well as not seem like a slob.
3. Practice speaking
Some people have trouble communicating, especially in real life. Practicing phrases to use in a conversation can make the convo more interesting. You can also learn skills that can help you become a great speaker and listener. You can practice with family members, friends, your pets, or even a mirror. Sure, it'll be awkward, but it'll be worth it in the long run. Remember, no pain, no gain.
4. Have open body language
If you always seem closed off and unconfident, people will be less likely to approach you. Some common avoidant cues include: slouching shoulders, head-down, always on your phone, constantly listening to music, poor eye contact, short replies, and more.
5. Prioritize friends
Have clear boundaries, and don't befriend people whom you don't genuinely care for, and they don't care for you. See who has helped you the most, who has been the closest, and been there for you. These are the people you should keep. If you have to message someone first to talk to them, or they avoid you, etc., then it's time to let go. Having fewer friends can also help you focus your resources and energy elsewhere.
6. Take risks
You won't get anywhere without taking risks. Sure, it might be awkward to approach someone on the first day of school or work, and it might end badly, but who knows? That person could help you, and even become a lifelong friend. Try things out, like a new restaurant. Now you are more open-minded to new experiences, and you have more to talk about. Your life will become significantly more interesting. This also doesn't have to only apply to social situations.
7. Change your mindset
Don't expect good things to come to you. Work hard for them. Develop discipline, and try. Don't give up, you've got this.

Good luck to all of you. I hope that you may ascend and your life will be better.

Sources:
There are more sources that you can readily find online, these are just the basics. If you search it up, you will find the sources, and/or sites that will link sources in their articles.

Incel | Definition, History, & Facts | Britannica

Incel, member of an online subculture of primarily heterosexual men who identify as being unable to have romantic or sexual relationships. This self-described inability to form attachments is often expressed as grievance toward women. Incel subculture has been associated with misogyny, extremism,

www.britannica.com

The Effects of Attractiveness and Status on Personality Evaluation - PMC

Research on personality has shown that perceiving a person as attractive fosters positive expectations about his/her personal characteristics. Literature has also demonstrated a significant link between personality traits and occupational ...

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Good conduct makes your face attractive: The effect of personality perception on facial attractiveness judgments - PMC

Human facial attractiveness is related to physical features, such as clear complexion and symmetry. However, it is also known that facial attractiveness judgments are influenced by a wide range of non-physical factors. Here, we examined the effect ...

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

The Importance of Personality Development-Lexicon MILE Blogs

This blog contains information about the importance of personality development.

www.lexiconmile.com

------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------​

I made this thread because someone told me to. I spent like 2 hours on this lol. I'll try to reply to everyone's comments .

@Nihilus I just realized could this be MUST READ worthy?

Jfl at any of this biggest slayer I know is low IQ (everyone agrees he's below average on intelligence, he acknowledges it himself), openly racist, antisemitic and his humor consists of insulting his inferior friends and girls he fucks jfl (true Chad behavior tbh)

 

[sigma]

Bros name is sigma and he has a christian bale pfp ban him please

its a joke lol (everyone knows im the sigma (its over for me))

 

[core.schizo.]

Goodthread, dnrd bookmarked

 

[sigma]

bump bc PERSONALITY AAAAAAAAHHH

 

[agony]

hahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahah bluepill ahh place only chad

 

[sigma]

+halo effect btw

 

[imog.incels]

personality=looks+style

i see why you have no friends

 

[imog.incels]

personality=looks+style

nga ur ugly

 

[Snowskinned]

Personality is like looks, mostly genetics. Higgers and muhammeds are agressive and violent, tall whites are impulsive and egoistical, short whites and asians are betacucks. It can be altered, but not much. Vocabulary and interests can be changed tho. Some girls fw guys who read books, some fw rappers. But genuine interest can't be faked, so only your vocabulary and mood & energy level(these alter your face) can be changed for the better