Discussion FEMALE USERS: What's the minimum acceptable looks level you want for a boyfriend?

[pompompurino]

Are you muscular?

so yeah kinda

 

[Jova]

working on it, im definitely on the more built side

And your preferred body type on a man is?

 

[Incognito]

he seemed like he really liked confident and dominant women, when we were doing some workouts he always insisted that i would take the lead

First @RomanianCel, now the gym guy. It looks like you might be drawn to the type who likes to be dominated.

 

[N30N]

y

Whatever floats your boat I guess. That's not for me is all.

 

[Incognito]

Some HTN and above husbands can have explosive sex drives in their bedrooms with that one wife if he's attracted to her

If he can control himself yes, bust most can't.

 

[Jova]

If he can control himself yes, bust most can't.

Why not
I love my wife

 

[N30N]

@Jova you're on a race to 500 messages or something.

 

[Jova]

@Jova you're on a race to 500 messages or something.

am I n***a?

 

[N30N]

am I n***a?

So it seems n***a.

 

[Jova]

So it seems n***a.

pat pat

 

[Incognito]

Why not
I love my wife

You can control it, which is a good trait. I agree with you on that. However, others lack this control, which I see as a weakness. A man needs to be the boss of his own mind and body; otherwise, he can be easily influenced by everything around him.

 

[Jova]

You can control it, which is a good trait. I agree with you on that. However, others lack this control, which I see as a weakness. A man needs to be the boss of his own mind and body; otherwise, he can be easily influenced by everything around him.

So you'd say only 1% of women get these fairytale marriages

 

[Incognito]

So you'd say only 1% of women get these fairytale marriages

You said it yourself: FAIRYTALE marriage. Most people don't understand what marriage really means. Marriage is a responsibility from both sides. When you marry, you live for your family, not just for yourself. You need to be ready for this commitment; it's not something you can walk away from easily because of a minor argument. It’s mentally challenging and requires hard work. Nowadays, people often view it as a fairytale and marry just for the sake of marrying.

 

[Jova]

You said it yourself: FAIRYTALE marriage. Most people don't understand what marriage really means. Marriage is a responsibility from both sides. When you marry, you live for your family, not just for yourself. You need to be ready for this commitment; it's not something you can walk away from easily because of a minor argument. It’s mentally challenging and requires hard work. Nowadays, people often view it as a fairytale and marry just for the sake of marrying.

Exactly so
Fairytale marriage or fairytale LTR

 

[pompompurino]

And your preferred body type on a man is?

gymmaxxed ofc, i want them to look like they eat well and train hard. i dont like skinny guys and i dont like fat guys.

 

[Jova]

gymmaxxed ofc, i want them to look like they eat well and train hard. i dont like skinny guys and i dont like fat guys.

Abs are a must?

 

[pompompurino]

Abs are a must?

no, abs are not a must for me

 

[Incognito]

Exactly so
Fairytale marriage or fairytale LTR

But you married now. When the little xangsanes coming?

 

[Jova]

But you married now. When the little xangsanes coming?

soon.

 

[Jova]

no, abs are not a must for me

What's a must for you?

 

[Incognito]

no, abs are not a must for me

Ideal bf for a male in your opinion?

 

[pompompurino]

What's a must for you?

i just really like guys that go to the gym and eat well like i said, i want a large muscular man so that’s my must

 

[Jova]

i just really like guys that go to the gym and eat well like i said, i want a large muscular man so that’s my must

How large are we talking?

 

[pompompurino]

Ideal bf for a male in your opinion?

just under 20%

 

[Jova]

just under 20%

So not shredded/lean?

 

[N30N]

just under 20%

Lifefuel for me.

 

[Jova]

Lifefuel for me.

She's larping
She definitely wants 12%

 

[Incognito]

just under 20%

I used to be on the larger side with a higher body fat, in bear mode. I’m currently cutting, but I’m not sure if it’s worth it.

 

[pompompurino]

How large are we talking?

pretty large, i like men who can lift super heavy

So not shredded/lean?

nope. like i said, abs aren’t a must.
shredded and lean looks cool tho

 

[pompompurino]

She's larping
She definitely wants 12%

im not

 

[Jova]

pretty large, i like men who can lift super heavy

nope. like i said, abs aren’t a must.
shredded and lean looks cool tho

Or you consciously believe lean/muscular are more in demand by women and it's hard to lock one down?

 

[N30N]

She's larping
She definitely wants 12%

I know, I'm just trying to feel good about myself.

 

[Jova]

I know, I'm just trying to feel good about myself.

Or you consciously believe lean/muscular are more in demand by women and it's hard to lock one down?

This is what I think

 

[pompompurino]

I used to be on the larger side with a higher body fat, in bear mode. I’m currently cutting, but I’m not sure if it’s worth it.

do what you wanna do bro! im currently focused more on muscle/maintence but still losing fat, later on ill definitely be getting much leaner with a more aggressive cut

 

[pompompurino]

Or you consciously believe lean/muscular are more in demand by women and it's hard to lock one down?

ngl i feel like most women don’t like huge guys like i do
ive noticed most of my friends like skinny ass dudes

 

[Jova]

ngl i feel like most women don’t like huge guys like i do
ive noticed most of my friends like skinny ass dudes

Translation: lean and muscular, like a tiktok prettyboy

 

[Jova]

@tiabiachia

 

[pompompurino]

Translation: lean and muscular, like a tiktok prettyboy

what my friends like?? i guess so, but they like actual stick figure ass men

 

[Jova]

what my friends like?? i guess so, but they like actual stick figure ass men

Translation

 

[N30N]

Translation
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AKA healthy natural physique.

 

[Incognito]

do what you wanna do bro! im currently focused more on muscle/maintence but still losing fat, later on ill definitely be getting much leaner with a more aggressive cut

Yeah, I’m thinking of cutting and then recomping. Thanks for the info.

 

[Jova]

AKA healthy natural physique.

And I bet she doesn't want 20% bf
Most women want 11-15% in a man

 

[N30N]

AKA healthy natural physique.

Motivation for me tbh, I NEED to lean down to sub 15% bf this school year.

 

[Jova]

Yeah, I’m thinking of cutting and then recomping. Thanks for the info.

Nah she's larping

And I bet she doesn't want 20% bf
Most women want 11-15% in a man

They just unconsciously know that these men have more options

 

[Jova]

Motivation for me tbh, I NEED to lean down to sub 15% bf this school year.

I've done it. I'm at like 13% now

 

[N30N]

I've done it. I'm at like 13% now

Nice man!

 

[Jova]

Nice man!

Thank you!

 

[Incognito]

I've done it. I'm at like 13% now

I was at 11% body fat before, then increased to 26%, and I'm now at 19%. I plan to get back to 11% in a few months.

 

[Jova]

I was at 11% body fat before, then increased to 26%, and I'm now at 19%. I plan to get back to 11% in a few months.

WTF happened?

 

[fable]

How do you guys know what bf you are? Do you use some kind of a calculator? If so, please suggest one or is this calculator accurate