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tell me about ur love life

never really had one until my sophomore year of high school

there was a time in 7th grade I asked out a girl over Christmas break and she said yeah, but not only an hour later she broken up with me for some other guy that she had feelings for.

my freshman year of highschool there was this cute girl that I had in my first period
we started talking but I was always getting high when we did start she ending things off
this was also during the pandemic so mask was my saving grace


My sophomore year I dated this Emo chick for about 2 months and that was a thing that happened
we broke up because she was pagan and she also was pansexual other things I won't discuss

after that I always had an easy time getting girls approaching me and getting their numbers and shit even when I look like a bald autistic r****d

I had talked to this one girl for about a week and we were making out in shit in the back of the classroom behind a projector screen (we were the only ones in their besides some people who were setting up costumes because this was in a theater room)

we could have fucked but she was ugly and easy also I had no real way of doing it because of our families

met this one girl who worked at an ice cream parlor and asked her number as a (I bet your ass I won't) to my sisters

we exchanged snacks and stories but we didn't do anything because we were about 30 minutes away and she also had a car before me and I didn't want to deal with that "embarrassment" so I self sabotaged and blocked her yadda yadda

she was very very pretty like High HTB

lasted about 3 weeks

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met my girlfriend

we met about 3 months ago and we haven't even kissed yet; however, we had phone sex four times. how backwards that is.
 
never really had one until my sophomore year of high school

there was a time in 7th grade I asked out a girl over Christmas break and she said yeah, but not only an hour later she broken up with me for some other guy that she had feelings for.

my freshman year of highschool there was this cute girl that I had in my first period
we started talking but I was always getting high when we did start she ending things off
this was also during the pandemic so mask was my saving grace


My sophomore year I dated this Emo chick for about 2 months and that was a thing that happened
we broke up because she was pagan and she also was pansexual other things I won't discuss

after that I always had an easy time getting girls approaching me and getting their numbers and shit even when I look like a bald autistic r****d

I had talked to this one girl for about a week and we were making out in shit in the back of the classroom behind a projector screen (we were the only ones in their besides some people who were setting up costumes because this was in a theater room)

we could have fucked but she was ugly and easy also I had no real way of doing it because of our families

met this one girl who worked at an ice cream parlor and asked her number as a (I bet your ass I won't) to my sisters

we exchanged snacks and stories but we didn't do anything because we were about 30 minutes away and she also had a car before me and I didn't want to deal with that "embarrassment" so I self sabotaged and blocked her yadda yadda

she was very very pretty like High HTB

lasted about 3 weeks

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met my girlfriend

we met about 3 months ago and we haven't even kissed yet; however, we had phone sex four times. how backwards that is.
Better than esex atleast
 
18 but what could you do?

I've seen enough enough geriatric eggheads who've used fancy language to try and pick my brain.

All they did was explain the things I know about myself ( deep down )

And how I should fix things ( I can't, I just revert or barely give a shit when the time comes )

Nothing helps. I'll start going to therapy again, I've decided, but I doubt it'll help.
I'm pretty sure if you're more honest with them it should help, but your story does sound like that of someone with a lot of emotional trauma. You could overcome it, but it takes the discipline of wanting to get better, and actively trying to get better.
 
Omfg that's the thing Everytime i go back (not for him I just get shit for free sometimes and it's the nicest theater close to me) he's never scheduled. I literally ask to see the schedule from someone in advance when I go and he's not there. Like ho do u not work. I feel like it would be awkward tho more than anything
he’s not shit anyways 🙄 homeboy wants a taste when he has his own slice u should get with his brother 😮‍💨
 
what makes them undesirable
sometimes its cuz theyre fat. sometimes I dont mind them but they just seem retarded or crazy or are desperate.

one girl who i had one conversation with beforehand in highschool just smacks my ass randomly and calls me sexy, I was bald in highschool and some girl just would not stop rubbing my head, Some girl at my church would just repeatedly ask me for hugs out of the blue, I had a 5 min conversation with my oneitis who i met at work and then she just starts poking me randomly.

Happens once in a while. Its not that I'm traumatized or some shit I just wonder what it means when ppl come on strong like that.
 
mine is brutal
i confessed to the gym guy after 5 long months of liking him, him ghosting me for a month then coming back, and never asking me on a date and ive been on delivered for a week and a half
if you already did your part of clearly saying that you would like to date him or something, then his current Behaviour could be explained as not being into you :hahaa:
 
i lure hookers into my home, drug their drinks, perform odd sexual acts for the sake of it, and then kill them in a violent and bloody manner. the true sigma way
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do not try at home*
 
@pompompurino what do you think about simping? Have you ever been simped by someone? Would you simp someone?
i am usually the simp, i’ve been simped for before as well but it’s very rare. what i think is that boys need to play a little hard to get, girls don’t like when guys are easy even if they say they do. i’m sure it’s the same for guys as well so i have to stop simping too.
 
i am usually the simp, i’ve been simped for before as well but it’s very rare. what i think is that boys need to play a little hard to get, girls don’t like when guys are easy even if they say they do. i’m sure it’s the same for guys as well so i have to stop simping too.
Hmmm, interesting. I am not particularly into thinking in terms of heuristics.

Stuff like "more or less" and "last time it didn't worked because this small detail...", are usually the wrong way of thinking when you are doing something like "making the apple fall in direction to the sky by changing apples with different color".

There are cycles, impossible to be achieved, I think, and most suffering just keeping coming back because people don't abandon / give up.
 
mine is brutal
i confessed to the gym guy after 5 long months of liking him, him ghosting me for a month then coming back, and never asking me on a date and ive been on delivered for a week and a half
You're still after him ?? @pompompurino
 
mine is brutal
i confessed to the gym guy after 5 long months of liking him, him ghosting me for a month then coming back, and never asking me on a date and ive been on delivered for a week and a half
So real queen im born to be a lover girl forced to be a nonchalant yn 😫 but honestly don’t bother waiting !!! Let’s say u get together n someone asks u how u got together or ur kids ask do u really wanna say “mommy chased daddy until he decided I was good enough for him 😩” DONT MAKE YOURSELF AVAILABLE FOR SOMEONE THAT FINDS IT OKAY TO LEAVE U N NOT TALK TO U FOR WEEKS!!!!
 
So real queen im born to be a lover girl forced to be a nonchalant yn 😫 but honestly don’t bother waiting !!! Let’s say u get together n someone asks u how u got together or ur kids ask do u really wanna say “mommy chased daddy until he decided I was good enough for him 😩” DONT MAKE YOURSELF AVAILABLE FOR SOMEONE THAT FINDS IT OKAY TO LEAVE U N NOT TALK TO U FOR WEEKS!!!!
He chooses an another girl and it doesn't worked out, @pompompurino was the backup plan
 
He chooses an another girl and it doesn't worked out, @pompompurino was the backup plan
@pompompurino never let someone make u an option. You are worthy of love but u choose to chase after him cuz u don’t believe that u deserve someone that loves u instantly because u lack the love n compassion for urself
You’re showing him how little u really value urself n it comes on like an invitation for him to disrespect u more
You need to unlearn the whole thing of u being hard to love
it will save u so many tears and a clear head. Also you shouldn’t feel bad for chasing after someone especially since u probably did him no harm. it’s never wrong to love and not be loved back because at the end of the day u r probably a sweet girl n he never got to experience the love u have to offer n it’s his loss
 
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never let someone make u an option. You are worthy of love but u choose to chase after him cuz u don’t believe that u deserve someone that loves u instantly because u lack the love n compassion for urself
You’re showing him how little u really value urself n it comes on like an invitation for him to disrespect u more
You need to unlearn the whole thing of u being hard to love
it will save u so many tears and a clear head. Also you shouldn’t feel bad for chasing after someone especially since u probably did him no harm. it’s never wrong to love and not be loved back because at the end of the day u r probably a sweet girl n he never got to experience the love u have to offer n it’s his loss
Thanks sweetie 💅 but i didn't read
 
@pompompurino
never let someone make u an option
You should be the 1st AND ONLY option of this guy, and he should have started to date you months ago, you absolutely need to move on girl

You are worthy of love but u choose to chase after him cuz u don’t believe that u deserve someone that loves u instantly because u lack the love n compassion for urself
@holalola She is an attractive woman, idk how is it possible, she didn't have other options or met other guys
But ig when you're in love...

You’re showing him how little u really value urself n it comes on like an invitation for him to disrespect u more
He will use her i'm affraid, or cheat, or leave when a better option arrives

You need to unlearn the whole thing of u being hard to love
Being a bad b!tch isn't the solution, but she need to move on, she should have blocked him and ignored him long time ago, not waiting his text msg for one week, not like y'all 18yp wasn't addicted to the phone all day everyday (cc @ratedLTN2 )
it will save u so many tears and a clear head. Also you shouldn’t feel bad for chasing after someone especially since u probably did him no harm.
Met new dudes pompom

it’s never wrong to love and not be loved back because at the end of the day u r probably a sweet girl n he never got to experience the love u have to offer n it’s his loss
His loss to not prioritize you, your loss if you stay

not for u king you’re like happily married
I invite you to the wedding
 
Being a bad b!tch isn't the solution, but she need to move on, she should have blocked him and ignored him long time ago, not waiting his text msg for one week, not like y'all 18yp wasn't addicted to the phone all day everyday (cc @ratedLTN2 )
No she still needs to work on her mentality n be focused on being a bad bitch until she moves on.
U basically took everything I said n worded it better 😒 not fair
I invite you to the wedding
Omg finally flying me out to France 😩
 
focused on being a bad bitch until she moves on
I would be "affraid" she end up with a shitty personality just because she is affraid to be heartbroken or love again or trust a guy's intentions
A lot of women try to cope like that and makes the things worse

U basically took everything I said n worded it better 😒 not fair
I mog you (not physically wise)
Omg finally flying me out to France 😩
JFL
 
@pompompurino never let someone make u an option. You are worthy of love but u choose to chase after him cuz u don’t believe that u deserve someone that loves u instantly because u lack the love n compassion for urself
You’re showing him how little u really value urself n it comes on like an invitation for him to disrespect u more
You need to unlearn the whole thing of u being hard to love
it will save u so many tears and a clear head. Also you shouldn’t feel bad for chasing after someone especially since u probably did him no harm. it’s never wrong to love and not be loved back because at the end of the day u r probably a sweet girl n he never got to experience the love u have to offer n it’s his loss
Brutal she ignored all that knowledge
 
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