Discussion I feel like im falling behind in life

[Whaol]

Im pretty young and am already halfway through high school being a sophomore and 16. I would say I'm maybe average or possibly a bit above even, I have friends but they are more people that I just sit with. I just have no motivation ever, and am falling behind in assignments. I know my parents are disappointed in me and I feel like I could be so much better. I row crew and am one of the worst in the team. I try so hard but no matter what I do I always stay behind everyone else. How does anyone keep going, Im just so tired whenever I try do anything. Even when I want something so bad I always catch myself giving up or only doing a half-hearted attempts. I cant imagine living my life past high school, or living a traditional life like going through college and working a job. I don't want to sound like a "Im 14 and this is deep" kid but idk I don't know what to do. Does anyone else feel this way?

 

[Dean]

Im pretty young and am already halfway through high school being a sophomore and 16. I would say I'm maybe average or possibly a bit above even, I have friends but they are more people that I just sit with. I just have no motivation ever, and am falling behind in assignments. I know my parents are disappointed in me and I feel like I could be so much better. I row crew and am one of the worst in the team. I try so hard but no matter what I do I always stay behind everyone else. How does anyone keep going, Im just so tired whenever I try do anything. Even when I want something so bad I always catch myself giving up or only doing a half-hearted attempts. I cant imagine living my life past high school, or living a traditional life like going through college and working a job. I don't want to sound like a "Im 14 and this is deep" kid but idk I don't know what to do. Does anyone else feel this way?

stop watching porn start lifting weights

hows your diet?

 

[ajskin'n'bones]

try researching different ways to learn the material in school. instead of focusing on stuff you're not good at, pick up a new hobby. Getting good at something "normal" that you can showcase will make popularity skyrocket. invite your parents to anything relating to your new hobby. it sounds like you might be in an episode, so try to pull yourself out. Eating foods with tryptophan(a feel-good hormone) can raise mood and is good for you, and working out releases endorphins which also make you feel good. If you fake a good attitude with your parents, you might be able to trick them into having a positive association with you. Not everyone has to go the traditional route. you can travel, go into the military, join a trade(building, wielding, electrical), there is so much you can do instead of traditional work, you could even have a major glow up and get a chick pregnant, then be a stay at home dad lol. Don't worry, a lot of people feel behind, but you're not. there are people older and so much worse than you.

 

[sexlesstosexles]

Im pretty young and am already halfway through high school being a sophomore and 16. I would say I'm maybe average or possibly a bit above even, I have friends but they are more people that I just sit with. I just have no motivation ever, and am falling behind in assignments. I know my parents are disappointed in me and I feel like I could be so much better. I row crew and am one of the worst in the team. I try so hard but no matter what I do I always stay behind everyone else. How does anyone keep going, Im just so tired whenever I try do anything. Even when I want something so bad I always catch myself giving up or only doing a half-hearted attempts. I cant imagine living my life past high school, or living a traditional life like going through college and working a job. I don't want to sound like a "Im 14 and this is deep" kid but idk I don't know what to do. Does anyone else feel this way?

you are low t. this is because your peers have a sex life and you do not have a sex life. so you feel that life is unfair (it is) and you gave up as an act of resignation. your attitude is valid.

 

[quepasta]

you are low t. this is because your peers have a sex life and you do not have a sex life. so you feel that life is unfair (it is) and you gave up as an act of resignation. your attitude is valid.

just because he has a valid reason doesn’t mean he shouldn’t try to improve

 

[Looksmaxlossus]

no one wants to go through the system. it's shitty and stressful. you basically are forced to to survive though. it's understandable.
if you can find a way to make it work without that as i did do that

 

[Looksmaxlossus]

just because he has a valid reason doesn’t mean he shouldn’t try to improve

improve in what?

 

[quepasta]

improve in what?

work towards improving his situation, he shouldn’t just give up on life

 

[HaydenJFlyHawk]

Im pretty young and am already halfway through high school being a sophomore and 16. I would say I'm maybe average or possibly a bit above even, I have friends but they are more people that I just sit with. I just have no motivation ever, and am falling behind in assignments. I know my parents are disappointed in me and I feel like I could be so much better. I row crew and am one of the worst in the team. I try so hard but no matter what I do I always stay behind everyone else. How does anyone keep going, Im just so tired whenever I try do anything. Even when I want something so bad I always catch myself giving up or only doing a half-hearted attempts. I cant imagine living my life past high school, or living a traditional life like going through college and working a job. I don't want to sound like a "Im 14 and this is deep" kid but idk I don't know what to do. Does anyone else feel this way?

I relate to you but I’m a sophomore and 15

 

[acneic subhuman]

Im pretty young and am already halfway through high school being a sophomore and 16. I would say I'm maybe average or possibly a bit above even, I have friends but they are more people that I just sit with. I just have no motivation ever, and am falling behind in assignments. I know my parents are disappointed in me and I feel like I could be so much better. I row crew and am one of the worst in the team. I try so hard but no matter what I do I always stay behind everyone else. How does anyone keep going, Im just so tired whenever I try do anything. Even when I want something so bad I always catch myself giving up or only doing a half-hearted attempts. I cant imagine living my life past high school, or living a traditional life like going through college and working a job. I don't want to sound like a "Im 14 and this is deep" kid but idk I don't know what to do. Does anyone else feel this way?

Will be over for you n***a was feeling behind at 16, kept progressively falling further behind until now