My best isn’t enough

[Nobodyreallycares]

I have a really hard time communicating with my parents. I haven’t been diagnosed with autism although I do expect I have it and just haven’t been noticed to have it because I am also extremely gifted and mentally grew up extremely faster than other children. I’m 15 and my parents get mad at them because I don’t talk much at home. I usually give short answers and not talk much at home. For me it’s a struggle to be normal I really do try my best to communicate them but unfortunately my best won’t get any praise or acknowledgment because my best is below average. I feel as if my parents don’t want me like I’m a burden. All I can do is accept that my life was over before it began.

 

[OYASUMIAZI]

omg same, my parents have always been shitty tho so i never built a relationship with them.
But theyre always pissed that i don't speak to them and only give one liners.

just like, idk, do smth

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

omg same, my parents have always been shitty tho so i never built a relationship with them.
But theyre always pissed that i don't speak to them and only give one liners.

just like, idk, do smth

I’m trying my all

 

[#sensitiveyoungwoman]

Same here, I can't even talk to them normally

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

Same here, I can't even talk to them normally

Brutal

 

[meiyu]

I have a really hard time communicating with my parents. I haven’t been diagnosed with autism although I do expect I have it and just haven’t been noticed to have it because I am also extremely gifted and mentally grew up extremely faster than other children. I’m 15 and my parents get mad at them because I don’t talk much at home. I usually give short answers and not talk much at home. For me it’s a struggle to be normal I really do try my best to communicate them but unfortunately my best won’t get any praise or acknowledgment because my best is below average. I feel as if my parents don’t want me like I’m a burden. All I can do is accept that my life was over before it began.

Dont try and be normal, u cant earn peoples reactions. Ur self worth is not in how u do or what u did well in or how many times u were praised. The most important thing is that YOU know u did ur best, and u should be so proud of urself for who u are, that ur authentic (i am ND asw so i understand how u feel) ur fearfully and wonderfully made ,psalm 139, ur life is never over.

 

[kerpetenozel]

I have a really hard time communicating with my parents. I haven’t been diagnosed with autism although I do expect I have it and just haven’t been noticed to have it because I am also extremely gifted and mentally grew up extremely faster than other children. I’m 15 and my parents get mad at them because I don’t talk much at home. I usually give short answers and not talk much at home. For me it’s a struggle to be normal I really do try my best to communicate them but unfortunately my best won’t get any praise or acknowledgment because my best is below average. I feel as if my parents don’t want me like I’m a burden. All I can do is accept that my life was over before it began.

Same. Nothing you can do except LDAR and socialize in the hopes of finding a good friend amongst your stupid classmates and people.

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

Same. Nothing you can do except LDAR and socialize in the hopes of finding a good friend amongst your stupid classmates and people.

Online freinds are cool but I genuinely find it so hard to like people. They are so fucking normal and the ones that aren’t are juts not conscious about their actions like they lack iq. I’ve been around a group of people but my god they are so unfunny. I don’t hate people but it’s so hard to find people like me it honestly just frustrates me

 

[sensitive young boy]

I have a really hard time communicating with my parents. I haven’t been diagnosed with autism although I do expect I have it and just haven’t been noticed to have it because I am also extremely gifted and mentally grew up extremely faster than other children. I’m 15 and my parents get mad at them because I don’t talk much at home. I usually give short answers and not talk much at home. For me it’s a struggle to be normal I really do try my best to communicate them but unfortunately my best won’t get any praise or acknowledgment because my best is below average. I feel as if my parents don’t want me like I’m a burden. All I can do is accept that my life was over before it began.

Welcome to bp bub

 

[kerpetenozel]

Online freinds are cool but I genuinely find it so hard to like people. They are so fucking normal and the ones that aren’t are juts not conscious about their actions like they lack iq. I’ve been around a group of people but my god they are so unfunny. I don’t hate people but it’s so hard to find people like me it honestly just frustrates me

Exactly bro theyre all stupid, dont communicate, cant hold a conversation when im clearly trying to give them opportunities to expand the conversation. it's very frustrating not receiving back the emotional investment you make into people, that's why we gotta thrive being alone with ourselves

 

[bledilletante]

Online freinds are cool but I genuinely find it so hard to like people. They are so fucking normal and the ones that aren’t are juts not conscious about their actions like they lack iq. I’ve been around a group of people but my god they are so unfunny. I don’t hate people but it’s so hard to find people like me it honestly just frustrates me

said by literally everyone else all the time except they still act despite the discomfort. Ive been diagnosed and had the same issues, suck your shit up and interact even if it is not that meaningful. Life is frustrating because it incompasses others beyond yourself be they seemingly similiar to you or not. Or do not do it but maybe stop crying about it since its a co-occurent that comes with living. I am sorry about the parents though. Never over or however the blue is pilled

 

[Nobodyreallycares]

said by literally everyone else all the time except they still act despite the discomfort. Ive been diagnosed and had the same issues, suck your shit up and interact even if it is not that meaningful. Life is frustrating because it incompasses others beyond yourself be they seemingly similiar to you or not. Or do not do it but maybe stop crying about it since its a co-occurent that comes with living. I am sorry about the parents though. Never over or however the blue is pilled

You don’t think I do try you to interact and enjoy others? I’m always trying to interact and talk to others even if I don’t enjoy it. Also what’s wrong with sharing your struggle it’s not like I’m not doing anything I’m joining clubs and trying to talk to others most of the rage just comes from not being very successful in what I do.