Discussion How do incels actually feel in the long term ?

[Nihilus]

I am studying incels for a while now
between 12-15 y/o I've been an incel before puberty and then looksmaxxing ascended me , so I kinda know what it is like to be an incel
if there is any active incel here , i would like to know what was your experience like , how do you feel ? what kind of suffering have you lived ?

i will be doing a thread about the white pill soon , so i will need this data ...
all contribution is appreciated and thanks ...

 

[Jelqmaxing]

having small cock

 

[Jelqmaxing]

im lonelyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

I am studying incels for a while now
between 12-15 y/o I've been an incel before puberty and then looksmaxxing ascended me , so I kinda know what it is like to be an incel
if there is any active incel here , i would like to know what was your experience like , how do you feel ? what kind of suffering have you lived ?

i will be doing a thread about the white pill soon , so i will need this data ...
all contribution is appreciated and thanks ...

 

[Nihilus]

im lonelyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

are you an actual incel , because you are not even ugly
ig you are autistic

 

[Tim]

https://imgur.com/a/tUk3gY8

1.5 to 2 years ago, I felt lonely because most of my friends were getting girlfriends. But now, I don't mind it anymore; I've kind of embraced it. I am just waiting for the right one to have my first kiss, or even more.

 

[Jelqmaxing]

are you an actual incel , because you are not even ugly
ig you are autistic

im lonely

 

[Jelqmaxing]

https://imgur.com/a/tUk3gY8

1.5 to 2 years ago, I felt lonely because most of my friends were getting girlfriends. But now, I don't mind it anymore; I've kind of embraced it. I am just waiting for the right one to have my first kiss, or even more.

well kissing aint shit i just wanna have friends !

 

[Nihilus]

i just wanna have friends

and why are you lonely

 

[Jelqmaxing]

and why are you lonely

cuz i dont have friends.

 

[Tim]

well kissing aint shit i just wanna have friends !

I do not have any real friends either. But you shouldnt stress it to much

 

[theshadeofshit]

View attachment 24514having small cock

whitemogs me

 

[Nihilus]

whitemogs me

sad genetic dead end , if you live in the west you are doomed

 

[theshadeofshit]

sad genetic dead end , if you live in the west you are doomed

I live in california's most diverse city and see white chads and lightskin(spic,nig or curry)moggers as the most successful dating wise. Pheno is truly everything.

 

[Nihilus]

I live in california's most diverse city and see white chads and lightskin(spic,nig or curry)moggers as the most successful dating wise. Pheno is truly everything.

are you an incel

 

[theshadeofshit]

are you an incel

Yes i'm 5'6 guatemalan around mexicunt-americans with more euro admixture on avg. It's a b***h

 

[Jelqmaxing]

I live in california's most diverse city and see white chads and lightskin(spic,nig or curry)moggers as the most successful dating wise. Pheno is truly everything.

f**k dating bro. i want friends

 

[theshadeofshit]

f**k dating bro. i want friends

same brother but being short and brown is brootal i would be the butt of jokes back in high school. Heightmog racemog simultaneously. If i was normal color and height then I would not be as paranoid.

 

[Tim]

same brother but being short and brown is brootal i would be the butt of jokes back in high school. Heightmog racemog simultaneously. If i was normal color and height then I would not be as paranoid.

I don't want to sound funny or anything, but I don't see why height affects attractiveness. I'm 1.94 meters tall and it doesn't help at all. I'd rather be 10 cm shorter so that my muscles would grow faster.

 

[Nihilus]

I don't want to sound funny or anything, but I don't see why height affects attractiveness. I'm 1.94 meters tall and it doesn't help at all. I'd rather be 10 cm shorter so that my muscles would grow faster.

because you live in f*****g Netherlands

 

[Tim]

because you live in f*****g Netherlands

Lets say i go to america or england (i want to do my master degree at harvard or mit (Cambridge)) will it really boost my looks? I cant believe it

 

[MarkWall]

https://imgur.com/a/tUk3gY8

1.5 to 2 years ago, I felt lonely because most of my friends were getting girlfriends. But now, I don't mind it anymore; I've kind of embraced it. I am just waiting for the right one to have my first kiss, or even more.

Bro if most of your friends get girlfriends that’s good growing your social circle and can just talk to one of there friends.

 

[Nihilus]

Lets say i go to america or england (i want to do my master degree at harvard or mit (Cambridge)) will it really boost my looks? I cant believe it

it will boost your smv

 

[Tim]

Bro if most of your friends get girlfriends that’s good growing your social circle and can just talk to one of there friends.

Ngl never spoken to them, ive always been to scared for that shit

 

[Tim]

it will boost your smv

What is smv?

 

[MarkWall]

Ngl never spoken to them, ive always been to scared for that shit

Bro before dating apps and all this bull shit this is how people met if your nice to them not overly nice but respectful and show your a good friend to there boyfriend they will most likely, approve of you and help put you on to there friends. One of the better more genuine ways to meet people imo.

Ngl never spoken to them, ive always been to scared for that shit

 

[MarkWall]

What is smv?

Sexual marketplace value

 

[Tim]

Bro before dating apps and all this bull shit this is how people met if your nice to them not overly nice but respectful and show your a good friend to there boyfriend they will most likely, approve of you and help put you on to there friends. One of the better more genuine ways to meet people imo.

I know that, but I am scared to talk to people I don't know because I probably am not good enough anyway. Especially girls, why would a girl want to talk to me over another guy

 

[Nihilus]

I know that, but I am scared to talk to people I don't know because I probably am not good enough anyway. Especially girls, why would a girl want to talk to me over another guy

i think you will see dating success in another country

 

[MarkWall]

I know that, but I am scared to talk to people I don't know because I probably am not good enough anyway. Especially girls, why would a girl want to talk to me over another guy

Gonna be real with you right now, your in your own head you don’t need to go to another country for success just be narcissistic to yourself and it will make you more confident or alcohol if you need somewhere to start. success will bring in more genuine confidence. I’ve always been nervous and had anxiety mainly about my height but just knowing how hard I work at my study’s and gym brings me confidence despite that.

 

[Tim]

i think you will see dating success in another country

I dont think so tbh, i still cant speak to other people

 

[Tim]

Gonna be real with you right now, your in your own head you don’t need to go to another country for success just be narcissistic to yourself and it will make you more confident or alcohol if you need somewhere to start. success will bring in more genuine confidence. I’ve always been nervous and had anxiety mainly about my height but just knowing how hard I work at my study’s and gym brings me confidence despite that.

The biggest fear I have is being bullied again for trying to speak to someone who is out of my league. I often discuss this with some guys at school who have a lot of friends. They keep repeating, 'Just don't give a f**k,' and I understand that's the whole point, but I just can't. It's easy for them to say; they look ten times better than I do. They once threw me under the bus by sending a girl to talk to me, and I completely froze. I was in a sort of shock that I couldn't snap out of. I know this is really sad, but it is what it is.

Alcohol doesnt work unfortually, i might try weed soon.

 

[theshadeofshit]

I don't want to sound funny or anything, but I don't see why height affects attractiveness. I'm 1.94 meters tall and it doesn't help at all. I'd rather be 10 cm shorter so that my muscles would grow faster.

It's about demographics. You are pretty standard for ur height there but in mestizo land you would be worshipped by every foid

 

[MarkWall]

The biggest fear I have is being bullied again for trying to speak to someone who is out of my league. I often discuss this with some guys at school who have a lot of friends. They keep repeating, 'Just don't give a f**k,' and I understand that's the whole point, but I just can't. It's easy for them to say; they look ten times better than I do. They once threw me under the bus by sending a girl to talk to me, and I completely froze. I was in a sort of shock that I couldn't snap out of. I know this is really sad, but it is what it is.

Alcohol doesnt work unfortually, i might try weed soon.

Don’t try weed terrible drug. Best thing I could say is fake it till you make it start trying to be a little more full of yourself be genuinely proud of the things you’ve done. Your not ugly and just make the girl talk about her self and if she asks about you then respond best way to make convo to start

 

[theshadeofshit]

The biggest fear I have is being bullied again for trying to speak to someone who is out of my league. I often discuss this with some guys at school who have a lot of friends. They keep repeating, 'Just don't give a f**k,' and I understand that's the whole point, but I just can't. It's easy for them to say; they look ten times better than I do. They once threw me under the bus by sending a girl to talk to me, and I completely froze. I was in a sort of shock that I couldn't snap out of. I know this is really sad, but it is what it is.

Alcohol doesnt work unfortually, i might try weed soon.

You arent even ugly bro, were u trying to hit on models or something? If you arent racist then get a daughter of an asian immigrant. The mere idea of having half white kids gets them excited

 

[Tim]

Don’t try weed terrible drug. Best thing I could say is fake it till you make it start trying to be a little more full of yourself be genuinely proud of the things you’ve done. Your not ugly and just make the girl talk about her self and if she asks about you then respond best way to make convo to start

First of all, thank you for helping. The problem is that I am socially awkward. I can't improvise, so if she asks me something and I don't have an answer ready, I just blank out. With my friends, I know what to talk about, but with girls, I have no clue

 

[Tim]

You arent even ugly bro, were u trying to hit on models or something? If you arent racist then get a daughter of an asian immigrant. The mere idea of having half white kids gets them excited

have had one interaction with a girl before (she is way out of my league, though:

https://imgur.com/a/o7Z0jMB

). She approached me, we started talking, exchanged Snapchat, and even took a picture together. After that, we snapped each other, but I fumbled so hard at the next party. Out of nowhere, she was standing behind me, which startled me, and I blanked out. She asked me something, and I didn't reply for 3-4 seconds. Her friends started laughing, and she walked away. We never spoke again.

 

[Jelqmaxing]

idk ive got no game

 

[Tim]

idk ive got no game

Ive got no gane either. Hahaha thats why i fumbled

 

[mrvn56]

have had one interaction with a girl before (she is way out of my league, though:

https://imgur.com/a/o7Z0jMB

). She approached me, we started talking, exchanged Snapchat, and even took a picture together. After that, we snapped each other, but I fumbled so hard at the next party. Out of nowhere, she was standing behind me, which startled me, and I blanked out. She asked me something, and I didn't reply for 3-4 seconds. Her friends started laughing, and she walked away. We never spoke again.

She's not out of your league.

 

[Nihilus]

have had one interaction with a girl before (she is way out of my league, though:

https://imgur.com/a/o7Z0jMB

). She approached me, we started talking, exchanged Snapchat, and even took a picture together. After that, we snapped each other, but I fumbled so hard at the next party. Out of nowhere, she was standing behind me, which startled me, and I blanked out. She asked me something, and I didn't reply for 3-4 seconds. Her friends started laughing, and she walked away. We never spoke again.

Damn what a fumble

 

[Tim]

Damn what a fumble

I know right, i still wonder why she even came up to me hahaha.

She's not out of your league.

With the amount of guys trying to get her attention she probably is hahaha

 

[Tim]

because you live in f*****g Netherlands

CComing back to this, the average height of a male in the Netherlands is 1.80 meters, so I am still above average. But when is someone too tall? My little brother, who is 17 years old, is 2.02 meters tall, and I personally find that too tall. I think if he moves to America, people might find him too tall as well. I might be considered too tall too

 

[Nihilus]

Coming back to this, the avg height of a male in the netherlands is 1.80. So i am still abovr avg. But when are you to tall, my little brother (17yo) is 2.02m i myself find that to tall. I think if he moves to america prople will find him to tall. I mihht be to tall as well.

the average hight in my country(Tunisia) is 176cm (5ft10) ? IN MY COUNTRY YOU WOULD BE ABNORMALLY TALL , as other users said , if you move to another country you will be worshipped

 

[Tim]

the average hight in my country(Tunisia) is 176cm (5ft10) ? IN MY COUNTRY YOU WOULD BE ABNORMALLY TALL , as other users said , if you move to another country you will be worshipped

I understand that, but it might just be me, isn't being too tall not unattractive? For example, a girl who is 5'7 probably does not want to date someone who is 6'3.

 

[Nihilus]

I understand that, but it might just be me, isn't being too tall not unattractive? For example, a girl who is 5'7 probably does not want to date someone who is 6'3.

they do ,

 

[Tim]

they do ,

Thats some good news hahaha, i thought girls dont like guys wo are 2 heads taller than them

 

[Jelqmaxing]

ive got diagnosed with hyperthyroidism and my eyes are bulging its over brah

 

[Nihilus]

hyperthyroidism

IT IS TREATABLE

 

[Jelqmaxing]

IT IS TREATABLE

not my graves disease

 

[sexlesstosexles]

being incel is hell